Today, when I was cooking, my daughter was playing beside me. Suddenly she asked me, "Mom, can I help you?" I paused and asked, "Do you mean help?" She said, "Yes!" I said, "No, honey, you're great." Ten months a week, she really surprised me, and this sentence made my heart surge for a long time.
Two days ago, her father and I took her out. I held her for a long time. Suddenly, she kept twisting in her father's direction. I said, "What's the matter? If you twist your body, your mother will hug you with greater strength. " She said, "Dad, give me a hug. I am too heavy! " "My mother is almost crying, and my daughter is much better than her husband.
Having tea with friends, an uncle teased her and gave her a glass of water. She said, "Give it to mom." Turn around and get me a drink. In an instant, I became the focus of the scene, praising the children.
Go to the early education center to participate in activities, take her to wash her hands when she enters the door and wipe a piece of paper for her. She still wants to buy it because she has to wait in line. Her father said, "Don't take it after washing, someone is waiting in line. Let's go. " She took out a piece of paper, turned her head and handed it to the grandmother of other children who were washing their hands next to her. The old man looked at her in surprise and said, "Son, you are great."
Alas, the baby suddenly grew up and became sensible, a little caught off guard and at a loss. Do you feel like you can't handle your child's tricks?
A contented mother
When others praise their children, they must be happy, because she is really great. She can make people around her like her, which is her charm and recognition. There will be more children willing to make friends with her in the future. But I always think she is a little early for ten months a week. She should be willful, so will she miss some happiness? This may be a point that I have been struggling with. Should I educate her more social rules, or should I let her enjoy the willful rights she deserves at this age? One more thing, when children grow up, they no longer need me as a mother, which makes me a little lost. I think every mother will experience this kind of mood, and this mixed feeling is enough to make a mother lose sleep.
However, I have already figured it out. After all, children should grow up and step into society, and correct values should be established as soon as possible. What's more, everything she learned was not forced by her, and what she learned also brought her happiness or psychological satisfaction, so everything was worth it. After all, what we should do is to respect children.