First, primary school students and junior high school students can't give it. Their bodies are not well developed, and the optic nerve and cranial nerve are damaged by mobile phones for a long time, leading to hunchback, puppy love, precocious puberty and myopia.
The second is not to give it to high school students with poor self-control. They think about playing games, being king, puppy love, listening to music, reading novels and how to read books all day.
No, you can't give it until you reach the goal set by your parents. Parents can set certain progress goals for their children and give them when they reach them.
Fourth, don't give it, ask for it in a rude and unreasonable way, blindly spoil the children, and develop the habit of arrogance and barbarism.
Fifth, you should give it to high school students. I don't know if the mobile phone can search questions? It's not cool to brush the questions to find the answers.
Sixth, it should be given to girls who are clever and sensible and have strong self-control.
Seven, when allowed to play. It's best not to leave your parents' sight and don't worry about him.
Eight must be given, now they are all taking classes online, and there is no computer to give them, hehe!
As a junior high school Chinese teacher and class teacher with nearly 30 years' teaching experience, I deeply feel that the mobile phone is a knife that destroys children. The reasons can be analyzed from the following points:
First, mobile phones affect children's health.
It is not uncommon to see news that smart phones hurt children's eyesight and cause cervical vertebra deformation in children. These injuries are tangible and can be regarded as believing.
In addition, there are some intangible injuries. When a child plays with a mobile phone before going to bed, the screen of the mobile phone is too bright, which will affect the secretion of melatonin in the human body and lead to sleep disorders.
In addition, children who are addicted to smart phones often have a negative attitude towards sports, which leads to low sports ability and thus affects their growth and development.
Second, mobile phones cause children to suffer from depression.
Some experts said that the more time spent on mobile phones, the more people who like to stay at home, the higher the probability of depression, and the proportion of children who often play mobile phones suffering from depression is much higher than that of ordinary children.
Smart phones can make children feel satisfied quickly and conveniently, shorten the duration of attention, and make people more and more bored, so excessive use of mobile phones will make people prone to depression.
Third, mobile phones damage the brain.
Children's physiological structure and morphology are different from those of adults. Electromagnetic radiation generated by mobile phones, tablet computers and other radio equipment is much more harmful to children's nervous system than adults. Excessive exposure to electromagnetic radiation will have a certain impact on children's health and cognitive ability.
Fourth, mobile phones delay children's learning.
Children who like to play mobile phones are used to the relaxed and pleasant information brought by mobile phones, and they are tired of knowledge learning and their academic performance drops. After being accused, they need to find comfort in the mobile phone network. After forming a vicious circle, children gradually lose their thirst for knowledge and become tired of learning.
In addition, the mobile phone can find the answers to the exercises conveniently and quickly. Many students don't look for books or think deeply in the face of difficult problems, and rely entirely on mobile phones to search for answers, which leads to children's thinking inertia.
Every child has the same amount of time and energy. Indulge in the mobile phone world all day, and naturally spend less time and energy on learning. Over time, academic performance will inevitably decline.
To sum up, it is really destroying a child and giving him a mobile phone!
This sentence is somewhat absolute, but as far as the current situation is concerned, it is quite realistic.
I am not a profound expert with first-hand data, but a front-line teacher in rural areas. As far as I know.
So from the perspective of a grass-roots teacher, the best and fastest way to destroy a child at present is to give him a mobile phone.
0 1. Is banning mobile phones a sign of educational incompetence?
Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, mobile phones have various benefits. Moreover, with the development of the times, the popularity of mobile phones is the general trend, and it is only a matter of time before children have mobile phones. Therefore, the "ban" of mobile phones has been criticized by many people. It is said to be against the trend of the times; Say it's stubborn; It is said that this is the best way because of educational incompetence.
But is this really the case?
The mobile phone is just a tool. It can be good or bad. The key is to see how we manage and guide.
The same is true for students who use mobile phones.
If you can guide children to make phone calls, check information and listen to music for proper entertainment, then mobile phones are naturally good;
The question is, who will supervise the students and do these things? At present, most parents just throw their children a mobile phone, but lack the follow-up management of their children's use of mobile phones.
Then, since parents lack management in the follow-up and let their children indulge, how should teachers manage it? Because it can't be managed, the teacher can only ban it. This is by no means educational incompetence, but educational decisiveness and courage.
02. To what extent can the control of students' mobile phones be released?
In fact, on the issue of mobile phones, we hope that students can live in peace with mobile phones. It is ok for teachers not to ban mobile phones, but only if we have a set of corresponding measures. For example:
In a word, if we can help students standardize their mobile phones, which are only a part of their study, entertainment and life, and do not take up too much time and harm their physical and mental health, then we can really open up.
Some people say, how can such a situation be realized?
Things, there is a process from fresh to crazy, and then to gradually cool down.
Mobile phones are not a scourge, but if they are not well controlled, they may become a scourge.
This sentence, though absolute, has to attract our attention. Let our next generation continue to indulge in mobile games, which not only failed to kill their will to struggle, but seriously ruined the future of the country.
There are really many people who answer this question, so I can't do without joining in the fun. However, I think everything must have a premise. Your question seems to have a premise, but it doesn't. The truth is that the best way to destroy a child without supervision is to give him a mobile phone.
This special winter vacation, I really have a lot of feelings through online classes with students.
To tell the truth, as schools and teachers, we have been giving students study guidance since the fifteenth day of the first month, and we don't meet each other for free. During the whole period, some parents have experienced several periods psychologically: enthusiasm, dullness and indifference.
The early epidemic was so serious that no one could go out, and Tik Tok's various home postures were exposed. During this period, parents are very enthusiastic. One is that there is nothing to do anyway, and the other is that I really want to experience parent-child companionship. We all send notices and assign homework in the WeChat group. Many notices are about epidemic situation and family. Every time the task is assigned, the atmosphere in the group is particularly good, everyone interacts more and the homework is handed in quickly. Sometimes, teachers don't give learning tasks earlier, and some parents start asking for them, which is very positive.
There were problems in the early days.
Some parents usually give their children a house and let them study by themselves. At this time, I will give them my mobile phone every time I receive a task. As a teacher, I soon know who is like this, because I usually get poor grades, but I hand in my homework quickly and accurately. Explain that people who use mobile phones are in the absence of supervision. Baidu and homework help have many methods now.
After the teacher's reminder, these parents quickly changed their situation and studied with their children.
Work first, then return to school. Gradually returning to work and production posts, the children are still at home. At this time, parents who have been with them for a long time also feel tired. Parents' enthusiasm for interaction slowly began to dissipate. Slowly, mobile phones and computers began to be taken over by students.
At this time, our homework was arranged in the class housekeeper app. I found that many students didn't collect their homework, but they handed it in quickly. After understanding, I know that students have qq groups. Some good people take photos and send them to the group immediately after finishing their homework, and then some people copy and upload the photos immediately without delay. When I said this in the class group, the parents concerned were silent. I guess parents don't have cell phones either. It was true when I called, because they went to work and couldn't control it. Students are children, not so conscious. Holding hands, I began to try my best to chat and play games. Teachers' homework has also entered a period of perfunctory and deception.
Parents' practices began to change. Some give mobile phones and computers to students at will, some parents take turns to supervise them, some simply don't give students mobile phones when they go to work, and the computers are locked, so they can manage students' homework after work.
It is conceivable that students whose parents don't care about anything only know how crazy it is to hold a mobile phone. How helpless the teachers are at this time. He's not answering his phone or returning messages. Parents don't care.
It is conceivable that the gap between students' grades will definitely widen after the start of school.
I think in normal times, some parents are busy, that is, they give their students a mobile phone, and they let themselves go without consulting them about what they did with it. Then, some recharged thousands of games, some indulged in novels, and some learned to smoke, drink and fall in love. When they found out, their parents were at a loss and the students lost everything.
Having said that, I just want to let you know that the mobile phone is a tool that can be used to learn and play games. As parents, supervision can be effective and promote children's learning. If the supervision is not in place or even there is no supervision, it is a bad thing and even destroys a child. For growing children, mobile phones are innocent, and the only ones to blame are those who supervise students.
Hello, I'm Xiaoxue, and I'm glad to answer your question. My views on your question are as follows.
First of all, I want to say that a child is a child, and he has no concept of a correct outlook on life. For anything wrong, without the correct guidance of adults, it will ruin him!
Secondly, what I want to say is that the best way to destroy a child is to give him a mobile phone. This is just one side of the story. It depends on how you, as a parent, determine the system of giving children. All children's behaviors are closely related to their parents. Let me share a story of myself with you! My child is twelve years old and a boy. This epidemic has made children all over the country take classes online. It can be said that mobile phones have become a tool for children to learn every day. If parents don't make a plan for their children, maybe they will all hold mobile phones except studying. My plan for my son is that one week later, on Sunday, you can spend an hour watching cartoons or playing your favorite games on your mobile phone every day. What you can do is not to play mobile phone in class. If you don't follow the rules, you can't watch your mobile phone for an hour on Sunday. My son made it. In fact, adults and children are all the same. If you explain the truth to him clearly, he will understand. This is my personal practice, and it is also very useful. I hope I can help you!
Finally, I want to send you a word. The child is a blank sheet of paper. As parents, we should grasp what we want to draw and how to draw.
Nice to meet you. With such questions, mobile phones are poppies for children. Why do you say that?
For a child, the mind is far from mature, and it is difficult to distinguish between true and false, right and wrong, good and evil, beauty and ugliness, but they have strong imitation ability and blindly imitate without distinguishing right from wrong. Do you think this is an extremely dangerous thing? What's more, most of the content in the mobile phone comes from the adult world, and it is terrible for children to blindly imitate everything that adults have done in advance!
Secondly, there is another thing in the mobile phone, called the game. No matter what glory it is or eating ducks, it can play a positive role for an ordinary child. Apart from wasting a lot of time, consuming a lot of energy, delaying a lot of studies and creating a large number of decadent children, what role do you think it has played?
Third, why do you say that mobile phones are poppies? They have a certain value, and the value is not small. For children, they can find almost all the knowledge they have learned, so when they encounter problems they don't understand, they can help solve them by consulting their mobile phones. They can also find all kinds of literary works they like and some knowledge that they can't learn in books and schools for the time being. The mobile phone is even an instant messaging tool, which can contact parents, teachers and relatives anytime and anywhere. These are all good aspects of mobile phones, but children are children after all, and adults can't control themselves, let alone being a child.
Therefore, giving the child a mobile phone is the beginning of destroying the child. Please try to avoid this, although we have many, many, many objective facts. The child is our own. Try to take care of her.
The best way to destroy a child is to give him a mobile phone. Although this statement is biased, we have to admit that this phenomenon is very common in reality.
Before discussing, let's take a look at my own real experience. The neighbor's children barely entered high school because of their unsatisfactory results in the senior high school entrance examination. They have just entered senior one with confidence and studied hard. Through hard work, their grades in the first semester of senior one advanced by leaps and bounds and entered the top ten of the class. As soon as the parents were happy, they rewarded a mobile phone. Since then, children have been addicted to it, playing mobile phones at night, sleeping in class during the day, and their grades have plummeted. He only got more than 200 points in the college entrance examination, but he didn't even pass the junior college entrance examination.
Why do cell phones ruin children?
1. There are too many temptations of mobile phones, as well as games, WeChat, Tik Tok and so on. Can make children fondle admiringly, even addicted.
2. Children are young, have poor self-control, and have weak ability to resist all kinds of temptations.
Once you are addicted to playing mobile phone, it is difficult to shift your energy from mobile phone to study. The more you play with your mobile phone, the less you like to learn. The more you don't want to learn, the more you like your mobile phone, which is a vicious circle.
The influence of mobile phones on children can not be ignored, and all countries in the world are aware of this. France has passed a decree prohibiting students aged 3 to 15 from playing with mobile phones in school.
I am a front-line class teacher and a math teacher, and I am also committed to exploring the deep integration of information technology and subject teaching. I really love and hate mobile phones and teaching (learning), which are inseparable.
There are many ways to destroy children, and mobile phones are really not the best way.
I have seen many children who have been devastated. The mobile phone is not the culprit, but the failed family education. Who gave the mobile phone to the children for the first time and let them play? Please answer this question first for all parents of children addicted to mobile phones!
I have seen a couple concentrate on their mobile phones on the train, and a child under 3 years old also holds a mobile phone. When the mother took the mobile phone away from the child, she burst into tears until she showed it to the child again.
I have also seen children aged 8-9 pestering their parents to play in the playground. Parents impatiently threw their mobile phones to their children, watching them calm down quickly and indulge in mobile games. Parents showed a relaxed expression on their faces and began to play with their mobile phones.
The mobile phone has become a "baby artifact"!
Hehe, now you tell me that this is destroying children?
Everything, from contact to addiction, needs a process. If the content on the mobile phone is allowed to enter the children's field of vision without restriction, countless novel and exciting games will undoubtedly prevail. Take Tencent's the glory of the king as an example. The original intention of game design is to make players spend more time in the game, so as to make consumption. From the perspective of business operation, this is normal. Even if the game is not addictive, its planning, design, production and operation are all incompetent. But the high ROI incentive mechanism in the game far exceeds the incentive mode in real life. For teenagers with weak self-control, addiction is inevitable if there is no restriction.
Mobile phones are usually bound to WeChat payment or Alipay. With fast payment, children also have spending power. But for families with strict discipline, children rarely have the opportunity to spend without restrictions. However, through the analysis of many children who steal their parents' accounts, it is found that these parents basically have simple password settings for the money in WeChat and Alipay. Children only need to watch their parents input once, and they will basically remember it. Please rest assured that primary and secondary school students are far from memorizing.
With disposable mobile phones and disposable money in them, how many children will not be tempted?
Is the mobile phone destroying children or the failure of family education?
I have also met very self-disciplined children. I have regulations on the use of mobile phones by middle school students in my class: First, mobile phones are not allowed in school and must be turned off. Once found, the warning will be confiscated for the first time after school, the serious warning will be confiscated for the second time, the parents will take it, confiscate it for three times, and return it after the semester. Second, the use of mobile phones outside school can not be managed, and can only be guided and supervised by parents. Self-disciplined children always carry mobile phones, but their studies are basically unaffected. I watched curiously during my home visit and found that their parents were also extremely self-disciplined, so I was relieved.
For mobile phones, it is the embodiment of scientific and technological progress, and it is a double-edged sword for learning. It can be used very well, such as online learning, taking notes, searching for learning videos, sharing learning experiences and exchanging learning experiences. If you can't use it well, you can skip online classes, play games, read novels and brush small videos.
Mobile phone is a tool, how to use it is a user's problem. As for whether to destroy a child, it has nothing to do with the child, but with the parents behind it.
From this question alone, I think it's right.
A mobile phone can really destroy a child.
First of all, I am a teacher and the head teacher of a sixth grade class. I have heard many parents complain that their children spend too much time playing mobile phones, because parents go out to work and leave their children a mobile phone for easy contact. Grandparents ignore their children, which makes them addicted to playing mobile phones. The most common reaction is playing games, so parents love and hate mobile phones.
There are no children who can't play mobile phones now. One is watching videos, and the other is playing games. These are nothing more than these two situations. Some people think that playing games is the biggest harm to children. In fact, this is not the case. Playing games properly can also exercise children's right brain and reaction ability, but playing too much will make them addicted. If their self-control ability is too poor, their eyesight and energy will be affected, which will affect their study. Therefore, playing games is ok, but parents must control it.
Personally, I think watching videos, especially those without nutrition, vulgarity and vulgarity, has a great negative impact on children's values, and some unhealthy videos have a greater impact on children's body and mind.
So if a child grows up healthily, please keep a good distance between the mobile phone and the child.
I'm glad to answer your question.
In fact, for this problem and the emergence of a new thing, we should look at this problem from the perspective of dichotomy. Mobile phone is a good thing for some children, and it may affect their study, life and so on for some children.
In fact, what I want to say here is whether the influence of mobile phones on children is good or bad. To put it bluntly, it is the parents' problem and the parents' guidance. Why do you say that? The reason for this is the following:
1, children are easily influenced by new things, such as an cartoon and a small game on their mobile phones, which are very attractive to them, because these are things they rarely see at home or in their daily lives, especially some special effects in cartoons and games, which are really attractive. Some cartoons are very beneficial to children, such as Qiao Hu and Dora the Explorer. What parents have to do at this time is to choose what kind of cartoons to show their children. Qiao Hu can teach children daily manners, speech and behavior, while Dora the Explorer can not only develop children's intelligence, but also make children learn English well, which is worth recommending to everyone. In fact, children can learn a lot from these cartoons. At this time, it is very important for parents to guide their children to see what.
2. Some parents are lazy. When they go home, they look at their mobile phones for fear of being disturbed by their children. They throw their mobile phones to their children and let them play by themselves, regardless. There are many parents like this, and he doesn't care what the children look at. In this case, of course, the impact on children is not very good. Often such children will end up playing with things and hurting their eyes, and some movies will be sad.
So what can be done to give full play to the role of mobile phones in children? I would like to suggest that many apps now pay attention to the youth model. Here, parents can do more research, set time, when to play, how much time to play at a time and what programs to watch. These parents can set. If children are forbidden to watch mobile phones blindly, it is equivalent to isolating children from the new things in the world in the current period of network development, making children feel inferior among their peers, having a lot of knowledge and things that he has never touched or understood, so it is difficult to be with friends.
Daughter is less than 4 years old. I usually show him cartoons selectively to see what children have learned, and even some video songs. Now he can not only recite the multiplication formula of 1-9, but also learn many simple dances and even sing a few words along with many popular online celebrity songs.
So I think the topic is wrong. I don't agree with this method. You can say such a thing, which only means one thing: you are an incompetent parent! ! !