Don't look at this minute to introduce yourself. The shorter the language, the more difficult it is to organize. I just want to make it clear that the shorter the language, the more difficult it is to organize. I believe you have the same experience.

Here, I want to tell you some common misunderstandings in self-introduction.

The first misunderstanding is to over-emphasize one's name.

As far as we know, there are some successful trainings. If you go online and search Baidu for the keyword "skills of self-introduction", many articles will tell you that "the purpose of self-introduction is to make others remember your name". Is that really the case?

Is your name that important to others? In other words, your name is the least important thing. The important thing is that if you attract others and they think you are valuable to them, even if you don't introduce your name, others may ask your name.

Only when others are interested in you and think you are valuable can your name have meaning and value. Before that, if you spend a lot of time strengthening your name in the short time of self-introduction, it will give people a feeling of "Wow, this person is self-sufficient". The first misunderstanding is to strengthen your name.

As you may have heard, I'm from the south, and I also have Lickitung. If I worry about this, I can't speak. The point is that I'm not handsome. Many times, when your focus is on this: external accent, pronunciation, standing posture, gestures, "the pronunciation just now may not be standard." I didn't make a prepared gesture. I can't shake my legs in the future ... "When your attention is focused on external performance, you will only be more nervous and insecure.

Note that what you say is the most important value, and other performances will follow this sense of value. And most realistically, why suggest you give up adjusting your accent and pronunciation? Because accent and pronunciation come from your nature, you can't change it in a short time without professional training.

The second misunderstanding is called writing. Especially in the face of many important self-introduction occasions, many people will prepare in advance, write it down and recite it. But you know that people's oral expression and written expression are sometimes two language systems that are difficult to cross. So many times, writing it down in words and memorizing it will make people feel "artificial"

Self-introduction is to moisten things quietly and have no sense of form.

Moreover, there is no such thing as a standard version of self-introduction. What we want is to make different personalized self-introductions on different occasions, facing different objects and with different purposes.

Read a paragraph: "I am cheerful, steady and energetic, warm and sincere to people, conscientious and responsible in my work, proactive, hardworking, brave in resisting pressure and innovation ..." It is appropriate to put these words on anyone's head, but I have no personality and no value.