The little girl looked at about four years old and was scared to sob by her mother's drink.
The more you cry, the more unhappy your mother is. The crying in this scene happened right in front of my eyes. The adults around are watching, and the voices around are very quiet. They were all looking at the mother and daughter, but no one came out to stop them. Perhaps the concept of nothingness is deeply rooted in our hearts.
When I was a child, I liked to play around and I was not at home all day. Invite grandma to eat every meal.
People in rural areas have few recreational activities, so they are naturally curious about many things. At that time, killing pigs and cattle was a big activity, which was only seen on holidays. Everyone in the village will visit them, and I am no exception. Later, my grandmother found out that I had to drag them home. Grandma pulled me back and said, "These animals are alive, too. You just watch them die before your eyes, and they will come to you. "
I didn't understand the threats at that time, but I wrote them down.
Now that I have grown up, it makes sense to combine my own experience. In the same space, everyone is an existence, but their roles are different, so the existence of * * * is natural and reasonable. People are gregarious and naturally like to watch the fun.
A while ago, the driver incident in Chongqing was very hot, and everyone in the car was buried with the driver. While we regret our life, we should also think about why people in the car just love to watch. Even if only one person in the car comes out to ease the mood of the driver and passengers, the tragedy may not happen.
But no one went out to rewrite their own destiny.
Similarly, opposite me, there is a scene where the child is crying and his mother is out of control. At this time, I quickly looked around to see if there were any snacks to coax the children's belongings. Seeing the big sister in the back holding a big bag of biscuits, I borrowed one, walked up to the child and handed the biscuits. At the same time, I picked up the child from the ground, wiped her tears, encouraged her to stop crying, comforted her with words like crying ugly, and hoped she would stop crying.
When I looked up and saw the ugly face of the child's mother because of anger, I thought of the pictures and words that someone in the circle of friends saw the childish life a few days ago. At that time, the girl at the scene said, "stupid adults only know how to be angry with children!" "
Yes, you are an adult, she is your child, and you are angry and call names. Isn't this an indirect scolding? The baby is your own!
Looking at adults and children, I had to say, "talk to children well and don't get angry."
Then I left and went back to my position to observe the children. At this time, the mood of mother and son was relieved by my agitation. The child's mother squatted down and said something to the child. After a while, they left and the child stopped crying. Mother and child are walking hand in hand.
I remember hearing the words of an early education center teacher, which shocked me. He said this: "Only bad parents, no bad children, only the wrong environment, no bad children!" " These words in the whole conversation left a deep impression on me, and I always remember them.
Children belong to the future, but in the growth stage leading to the future, please have a good talk with them. It is the stupidest behavior to lose your temper with your child easily, which hurts the relationship between parents and children the most. Don't forget, parents are original children are replicas, and adults are smiling at every move. Setting a good example for children is also to be kind to yourself in the future. Raising children first raises oneself, and raising oneself first raises the heart is the avenue.