We always walk so fast that we forget why we started. When we are accelerating, our bodies are getting more and more tired and our hearts are getting more and more tired. If we don't adjust them, we will gradually lose hope and enthusiasm for life.
Slow yourself down, not give up, but build your own hair.
In the poem "Walking with Snails", we seem to see anxious ourselves and snails dragged "fast".
Being parents for the first time, we always want to give the best to our children. Similarly, we also hope that he can grow into what we want.
Therefore, in order not to let the children lose at the starting line, as parents, we started early prenatal education in a hurry and began to learn the cultural knowledge of primary schools from kindergarten. By analogy, from primary school to high school, children have been catching up and becoming learning machines. So that my daughter said, "My childhood, as long as I brushed the questions, there was nothing else."
Academic achievements are important, but people need not only achievements, but also a correct attitude and optimistic psychology to survive in society.
Everything grows according to its own laws. When it's time to play, children had better have fun; When it is time to study, study hard. When it is time to do housework, let him try and make mistakes. Don't crowd around when it's time to make friends.
Just like a pony crossing a river, deep or shallow, it has to cross by itself.
Wait for a tree to blossom, wait for a cloud to come, wait for a child to grow up slowly, let him enjoy himself, shed tears, and constantly draw his own life experience from trial and error.
What you want to give is all kinds of constructive opinions, not encouraging others, nor imposing your wishes on children.
In our life, we will meet many people. Some people just pass by in a hurry and don't leave much impression; Some people, like a tornado, come and go suddenly, but the destructive power is so great that they dig out their hearts and empty everything, and finally, only a mess is left.
I have experienced the separation and combination of emotions, suffered the betrayal of the people I love most, and have no illusions about love. Like a hedgehog, it has a sharp thorn, which makes people unable to get close.
We don't want to accept anyone anymore. In fact, we can't let go of past injuries and people.
But life is about losing and getting at the same time. Miyazaki Hayao once said, "Life is like a moving train. When the person accompanying you wants to get off the bus, even if you don't give up, you should be grateful and wave goodbye.
Only by sending the person you don't love away completely will you realize what kind of person you really want when you are trying to get out of this quagmire.
If you have a purpose, you will get something. When you gradually become that better self, when you unload your prejudice against feelings and life, every day is deeply branded with your own brand, and gradually, it will become a landscape of your own.
You have to believe that someone will cross mountains to love you. From then on, you will also have a hug that can be willful and coquettish, and you will become melodramatic and begin to have various expectations for the lover around you.
And all this is because the other party has given you the deepest love and will be happy for a lifetime.
The edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold.
Born in poverty, if you want to change your destiny, you have to work hard step by step on your own. Perhaps, parents are farmers with their backs on loess. In the barren land, there have never been rich flowers for generations.
And when we can change our destiny through reading, a huge turning point in life is just around the corner.
Some people say that the pain of reading is the most unworkable of all pains. As a farmer, I have a deep understanding of this.
Because the opportunity to go to school is rare, so the parents' words are "can read, that is, borrow money for it;" Go home and farm if you can't read. "It always makes us feel like we are in the throat and desperately want to escape.
Jumping out of the farm is only the first step. When we have a "formal" job like others, we find ourselves a person with nothing.
No matter how outstanding the ability level is, he will always be the one who does the most and eats the most when he has not yet made his mark.
These are despised and maliciously excluded, just like whips, constantly beating themselves, doing things that others despise and suffering from the pain that others don't want to eat. After more than ten or even decades of "sitting on the bench", they have developed irreplaceable skills and can finally stand on their own feet.
The success of a career is like rice porridge stewed slowly with a small fire, which pays attention to cooking thoroughly and thoroughly. Don't compete with others for the time being, and don't care about others' contempt or ridicule. As long as you go your own way and keep going, you will succeed in the end.
Life, don't go too fast, things change a lot, you should learn to take it one step at a time and adjust your direction in time.
Take your time, you will think more thoroughly, make the process more perfect and make the ending more exciting.
Therefore, when you are in a hurry and tired of losing fun, you might as well slow down, feel the beauty of every moment carefully, encourage and hint at yourself constantly, and you will have more and more blessings.
Author: as light as the wind, as light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessing.
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