It can be better, but it can't even reach the beginning. Obviously, it can be broken through, but even the initial basic ability cannot be guaranteed.
A sister, when she got married, the conditions were good. She has a house in a second-tier city (no loan), and her in-laws have given her hundreds of thousands back and forth. She opened a shop selling handbags. Soon after the marriage, she became pregnant, and her in-laws came to cook and wait on her. The old couple can use their pension to make up for some family expenses. Life is complete and marriage is good. This is my initial knowledge and understanding of them.
However, six months after the baby was born, my sister called me one day and said that she wanted to swipe my credit card. I know they often use credit cards for small businesses. As far as I know, there are already seven or eight cards. After careful questioning, she realized that there were only a few tens of dollars left at home, and there was really no money to spend. I ... usually their food and clothing are bought unplanned and impulsively. For example, 200 yuan is bought for children under one year old, just because children see it when shopping, and it is euphemistically called that children like it. I'm surprised to come to this, and I'm a little disgusted. Seven or eight credit cards, three of which are still my husband's, and we will pay the mortgage ourselves. Later, based on some relationships, I still borrowed her credit card for one month, but I kept following up and asked for it back. I knew she wouldn't take the initiative to return it.
At the end of last year, because of the economic background and poor business, she transferred her shop. I later learned that the store bought by hundreds of thousands, 30 thousand pieces were all transferred! Don't be so impulsive at worst. She said she didn't want to delay too long and wanted to make a move as soon as possible. Well, you are rich. The point is, the store is gone, and the credit card is still going through. Her husband used to be a soldier in the army, and after he got married, he had to serve for four years before he could be discharged from the army and assigned a job. It was she who insisted that he come out early to find a job himself. He took hundreds of thousands of severance pay and finally lost it. Her father-in-law couldn't take it anymore and went back to his hometown to work. Finally, this year, with the help of a good friend, her husband helped his friend sell furniture in a renovated shopping mall similar to IKEA. My mother-in-law can obviously take care of her children, but she still dares not take them full-time. Every day, various shopping malls, children's playgrounds, early education classes, etc. It is good for children to have early education, and it is also good to have more contact with different environments. But can you bear it if you do this every day? My friend's shop wants them to become shareholders, so they are basically run by themselves, but they need investment and have enough to eat and wear. What should I do? It was fruitless to borrow money from family and relatives. One day she actually called and wanted to use our house as collateral! Oh, my God! It's no exaggeration to scold her ten thousand times in my heart. What can she say except anger and surprise!
It should have been a frequent walk, but now I seldom go to her house. Last week, I heard that a family of three went to Sanya, Hainan for a change of mood! She said that she was in a bad mood recently, and her luck was too bad, and her life was not satisfactory. She wants to go out for a walk. Oh, my God, did it become like this recently? All the results are finally caused by your step-by-step choice. Look at her state of "what you have now is the best" and the essence of yoga class. I just want to say that, of course, your years are quiet and good, and others are responsible for you and carry forward for you! Think of your old man, still working hard. Do you think everything will change after a short change in the environment? Waiting for luck is just muddling along. If you are not satisfied, don't take action. I don't care about our nine-to-five job. I don't know how ambitious we are and how much money we want to earn, but it makes life so embarrassing.
There is really such a person in life who thinks more than he does, always enjoys himself before paying, always wants to achieve great things, but is unwilling to start from small things. Aside from other family chores, as an individual, have you managed yourself, your family and your life well? No, please don't use those so-called realms, transshipment and precipitation to beautify your confusion, muddling along, greed and laziness.