How to educate children to distinguish right from wrong?
Educating children should start with some small things in life, but at present many parents often ignore the small things in life. Let's learn how to teach our baby the ability to distinguish right from wrong through things in life! In life, we will find some children buying chewing gum at newsstands and throwing wrapping paper directly on the counter. As he threw away the wrapping paper, he may have finally spit gum on the floor. This is against the regulations, ignoring the social rules that littering is not allowed anywhere. And the child who does this probably thinks that he just wants to throw it. Children can't control their impulse and mood, even if there is a trash can a few meters ahead, they can't bear to throw the wrapping paper there. And letting your impulse and temperament live is a sign of poor willpower. Because I can't control myself, I just do things by my temper, which is a sign of weak willpower and poor self-control. On the contrary, a strong-willed child will restrain himself and look around in this situation. If there is a trash can, he will throw it there. Even if there is no trash can nearby, the wrapping paper will not be littered. Children who know how to obey rules and etiquette and can restrain their impulses are strong-willed children. Cultivating children's self-control can be done in parents' usual education. Therefore, please be sure to cultivate your children into children who know how to abide by rules and etiquette and can control themselves. Because the child who can do it is a strong-willed child. It is difficult for people to tell right from wrong just by feeling. How to cultivate their ability to distinguish right from wrong from childhood? We can start from the following five aspects: 1, observe behavior pictures and distinguish right from wrong. Now there are many children's books for sale in bookstores, which can be bought for children to observe, analyze and judge. Train your ability to observe, analyze, judge and distinguish right from wrong. If you spit out a picture, you can ask: Whose is this picture? What is he doing? Is he right to do this? Why? What should I do? Judging the behavior in the picture can greatly improve children's ability to distinguish right from wrong. 2. Create a situation to distinguish between non-parents and children, and create a situation to distinguish right from wrong from the situation at will. If you play the game of taking the bus, create the behavior of giving up your seat or not, so that children can distinguish right from wrong in specific activities. When educating children, we should lead by example, not by example. Parents must pay attention to their words and deeds at home and set a good example for their children. At the same time, parents should always have a correct view of right and wrong, so that children can master the correct criteria for judging things in adult education. Of course, parents should not impose their wrong ideas on their children, which will make them lose their ability to judge things and make it difficult for them to adapt to social development in the future. 3. Adults should have a clear attitude. There are many right and wrong problems in front of children, so adults should observe them carefully and not take them lightly. When watching TV with children, the people in the play said a dirty word, and parents should point it out in time, which means it is wrong. Parents should stop taking their children to the streets in time and help them find toilets immediately. 2, 3-year-old children put forward unreasonable or impossible requirements, parents should clearly shake their heads to express negation. On the contrary, children's correct views and behaviors are affirmed by nodding and smiling. Early education. Step by step, don't rush for success. Children's ability to distinguish should be gradually improved. For 1 and 2-year-old children, it is a question of initially establishing good habits, so that they can gradually understand what is right and what is wrong from their parents' positive or negative attitudes. For example, a child cries and asks his parents to meet his unreasonable demands (such as eating dirty things on the ground), and his parents ignore him or stop him. After several times, the child will remember that it is wrong to do so. After 3 or 4 years old, parents can tell their children some simple truths, such as what's wrong with spitting, why hitting people is not equal, and children will gradually understand the truth and distinguish right from wrong more consciously. 5. Let children learn to compare themselves and distinguish themselves. For children, parents' education is always an external cause, which can only work through children's internal factors. Therefore, to cultivate children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, we must pay attention to guiding children to learn to compare and learn to distinguish by themselves.