Parents are senior intellectuals, and it is impossible for children to recite articles at birth; If parents have no education, children may become scholars. People's abilities begin to develop after birth, and the earlier they start, the more fully they develop. Children learn and master more things from birth than ever before, more than we thought. Moreover, children learn effortlessly in infancy. At this time, children are best at working with their brains, and their ability far exceeds that of adults who think they know.
The closer a child is to 0 years old, the greater the potential. If he can seize this golden period and give him a proper education, he will give full play to his greatest potential and become the best himself.
The development of children's potential follows an irreversible decreasing law. For example, a child born with a potential of 100 may become a person with a potential of 100 if he is given a reasonable education from the beginning and sticks to it. If you start education at the age of five, even if it is recognized as excellent education, he can only become a person with 80 points of ability; If education starts at the age of 10, he can only become a person with 60 points. In other words, the later education starts, the less potential children can finally exert, which is the law of diminishing potential.
Children's way of accepting things in the golden period of 1000 days in early life is completely different from that in the future. During this period, the child's brain development can be described by the word "copy", and the baby's ability is far beyond our imagination. At this time, the child is like a blank sheet of paper, without the ability to analyze and judge, but with the absorption ability that adults can't reach. So this period can be "instilled". Input the correct and suitable content into the child's brain regularly and vividly, and the child will absorb it and become a part of himself.
Helvetius once said, "All men are born the same. Just because of the different environment, especially when young, some people may become geniuses or talents, and some people may become ordinary people or even fools. Even ordinary children will become extraordinary people as long as they are properly educated. " As parents, they all want their children to be the best, but they can't start education at an early age, and often get twice the result with half the effort.
Early education, please start from the age of zero.
In the first year of a newborn baby, the most active part of the body is the brain. Fetal nerve cells began to grow rapidly from the third month, exceeding 250,000 cells per minute. Human newborns are born in an immature state of brain development, and will continue to grow and develop after birth to improve the function of the brain. By the age of one, the weight of the brain has reached 1/2 of that of an adult. 0 ~ 3 years old is the fastest period of brain development in one's life. All the functions that should be completed at this stage should be completed, and missing them may be irreparable for a lifetime.
According to many experts from China CDC, Chinese Academy of Sciences and Peking University, a large number of international research results show that 0-3 years old is the most important window period for human brain development, which is called "early life 1000 days" and is the golden age for human life development. In this golden age, the earlier you give your child a proper education, the smoother his development will be. Luo Renfu, a professor at Peking University Modern Agricultural College, said that providing security and increasing stimulation during this period can effectively improve people's all-round ability. If ignored, the consequences will be irreversible.
Children are growing up every day, and effective intervention and ability improvement in the critical window period should be highly valued. If you miss the window period, even if you spend several times of money and energy in the future, you will not achieve the ideal effect. Children learn things very quickly in this period, which is an extremely important plastic period.
"Dyed in the sky will be weak, and dyed in yellow will be yellow." When children are young, it is possible to live a good life. If you don't start teaching at an early age and wait until after the plastic surgery period, there will be many difficulties. Chen Heqin once told a story: a pianist advertised for students and said, "Those who have never studied piano will have a tuition fee of one yuan;" I learned two yuan. "People don't understand. They think that people who have studied piano already know a little, it is easier to learn and the tuition should be cheaper. Now it's more expensive than what you haven't learned. There is no reason. When the pianist knew it, he said to his friend, "Where did you know it? "There is nothing wrong with those who have never learned the piano but can't play it. As for those who have studied piano, they can't play it, but they have learned many disadvantages. I'm going to teach him well now. Fi has to cure the disease first. It is more difficult to get rid of his roots and teach him well than what he has not learned. So the tuition is twice as expensive. "Yes, children's education begins from birth, and parents have great responsibilities. Teach children to be cautious, because children are still young and easily influenced by the outside world. If children receive a good education, they will benefit for life; If children don't get proper education, they will suffer for life.
Environment will affect people's words and deeds, especially children in the plastic period. The parents and their family environment they came into contact with since childhood will leave a deep imprint on his heart and affect his life. This influence is subtle and subtle, but it will gradually emerge in children's life behavior. Children don't have the ability to choose the environment, so parents should try to stand in the child's perspective and provide a good environment for their children to grow up.
Education plays a leading role in people's development, but family education before school is the most important thing in children's life growth. Early education should start as soon as possible, but it is not to instill knowledge into children and recite classics, so that children's knowledge can win at the starting line, but to provide conditions for children's self-development, thus laying the foundation for their lives. Mill once recalled that his father had too many advantages in his early education. "He never forced me to learn." "When we walked together, he never led me in front, but let me walk side by side with him and push me to the front as much as possible. He never tells me the answers to those questions that I understand at once, but lets me think for myself. Only when I scratch my scalp can I understand it, and he will answer it for me. " Only when parents calmly design their children's early education can they form their own independent world outlook, not just the knowledge gained by external forces.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents' behavior plays a key role in children's growth. Family is the cradle of children's growth. Our behavior has an ever-changing influence on children's words and deeds. Parents are originals and children are copies. Parents are the closest people to children, the first people that children contact, and the objects that children imitate and learn. Only by setting an example can parents become the guides of their children's good behavior. The child's mind is a strange land. If you sow your thoughts, you will reap your actions. Sowing behavior can harvest habits; Sowing habits can reap morality; Sow character and you will reap fate. Only by setting an example can parents create conditions for their children's bright future.
Dr. Barr once said: "There is no more important period in a person's life than infancy ... In fact, the so-called' developing children's brains' means starting language education for children as soon as possible. But many people don't realize this correctly. Language is a tool of thinking. If children are not taught language as early as possible, their thinking will be limited and their brains will not be well developed. During the period before the child is 6 years old, if we can step up teaching them accurate and complete languages, this child will develop very fast in all aspects, even beyond the reach of other children. "
Children's language ability should be cultivated as soon as possible. Language is a tool for human communication and the basis for people to develop their potential, so children should master this tool as soon as possible. However, it doesn't mean that you and your child are bored in repeated and constant training, but that you should be good at using every opportunity in life to interact with your child, such as furniture in the room, flowers and plants on the balcony, vegetables and fruits in the kitchen and so on. These are the ways to teach children language. However, it should be noted that when teaching children language, they should be rigorous, and they should not say such lovely words as "dog", "drink water" and "car", but should teach standardized language. Because if the language children learn is incomplete and nonstandard, they have to learn a second set of vocabulary in order to correct it, which may even affect their pronunciation in the future. This nonstandard language is harmful to children. Your language standard, the child's pronunciation can be clear and accurate. Logical thinking comes from clear language. In order for children to do this, please set an example and choose appropriate standard vocabulary.
When children are old enough to understand their parents' conversations, they will start reading picture books and telling stories to their children. Stories are very attractive to children, and they are also a window for children to understand the world. The more children listen to stories, the more they can understand the world and broaden their horizons. But we can never force teaching, and all education can only play its role on the basis of interest. Only when children actively seek knowledge on the basis of interest can they get their own growth.
People who have something to do are the happiest, especially children. Dryden once said, "There is nothing happier than tasting the truth. The joy of tasting truth is unforgettable. " Children who have tasted the truth since childhood are actually happier than other children. Children are satisfied and happy when they read picture books, listen to your stories, practice standardized language and concentrate on what they are interested in.
Children's various abilities should be cultivated from an early age, and children's various abilities should be played through games. Dr James said, "Even animals will play with their children. Shouldn't parents be more like this? " The game interaction between parents and children can better promote children's physical and mental development.
No one can imagine how much knowledge and ability children can learn from games. Dr. James also said: "Early education for children must be carried out through games, because the instinct of all animals in the game and the hidden genius potential of children will be stimulated one by one." For children, to understand their interests, we can play various games with them, such as music games, painting games, language games, performance games, math games, shopping games, repair games, sports games and so on.
Parents are the people that children trust and love most when they come to this world. Children want their parents to play games with them. Parents should have this "leisure", which is not only a responsibility, but also a necessity for children to grow up. Please don't shirk the responsibility of playing games with your children on the pretext of being too busy and tired, don't refuse your children's request to play games with you, and don't interrupt the games with your children. Parents should be grateful: parents' faces and voices fascinate children, parents' work and use surprise children, and parents' care and help for children is the best entertainment for children. Therefore, when children want your company, when children want to interact with you, when children want you to play together, please actively participate and grow up with them.
Playing with children is not perfunctory, but observing children carefully and trying to understand their inner world. Children, no matter how young, have their own ideas. Please respect and understand children. Playing with children may make parents feel bored and waste time, but you should give them enough time to play with their children. Children need their parents, so please let them spend most of their time in the space near their parents. Children who grow up in this environment can always feel the care of their parents and enhance their sense of happiness and security.
Education is to promote children's better growth, but if you think that education not only does not help children but hinders and damages them, then this kind of education is not real education and should be abandoned immediately.
Every parent wants his children to have the habit of concentration and concentration. In fact, every child has this quality at a very young age. They are full of interest in the world and curiosity about all kinds of knowledge. They can spend more than ten minutes looking at a flower, they can spend half an hour observing the appearance of the wheel, and they can spend half an afternoon following the little ants. Isn't this the quality of concentration?
Why does this quality disappear as soon as children go to school? When it comes to troublesome underachievers, they are children who are inattentive, glance around and can't sit still, but they are also children who concentrate on observing the world when they are young! When the child is absorbed in reading, when you think it is time to drink water, call the child to drink water quickly; When the child concentrates on building blocks, you think it's time to eat fruit, so you run to feed the child. When he was absorbed in playing with water, you thought you were wet, so you shouted and interrupted the child. When he takes off his clothes and you feel cold, stop him loudly.
Don't tie children down with rules and regulations. The more you say "no", "no" and "no", the more your children will lose their discrimination, self-awareness and initiative, accept negative hints easily, become negative and lack independent consciousness.
Therefore, when you complain about your child's inattention, you actually prevent the child from forming the habit of concentration.
When children are young, please let them have more contact with classic and beautiful music, paintings, poems and nature. Being close to classics and embracing nature are very important for children's growth, and children can better feel this colorful world.
Goethe once said: "In order not to lose the aesthetic feeling given to us by God, we should listen to some music, recite some poems and look at some pictures every day." Music, poetry and painting are all important to children.
On weekends and holidays, don't just stay at home or go to supermarkets and amusement parks. Take your children to the embrace of nature. As long as you have the heart, everything in nature can be the material of education at any time, and everything in nature can be the teaching material for children to know the world when they grow up.
Personality is also a kind of ability, which is very important for children's later life. The formation of a person's personality basically depends on the foundation laid in childhood. The living environment in the first few years and the acquired attitude towards life are the key factors for children to form a certain character. In the first few years of children, let beautiful things form nature and consciousness in children.
Karl witte's father once said, "Children will enter the society after all. We should let them have excellent moral quality and healthy body and mind, and be able to overcome all kinds of difficulties. This is actually an arduous task, and parents need to do a lot of work. "
Education is a gradual process, haste makes waste. Every parent wants to educate their children well, but the education needs to be carefully designed according to the children's situation, and must have enthusiasm, perseverance, patience and perseverance.