First, "No matter how difficult the work is, people always do it. I am not afraid! " In this way, she began her own language training for deaf children.
199 1 In the summer of, dengzhou city Disabled Persons' Federation decided to open a language training class for deaf children and recruit language training teachers for the society. Jia Daoying, who studied early childhood education in Nanyang Kindergarten for two years at that time, saw that he met the requirements and actively signed up. During the interview, a leader said, "Xiao Jia, this is a particularly difficult job!" " "Jia Daoying replied without hesitation:" No matter how hard it is, people always do it. I'm not afraid! "
The language training classes for deaf children run by dengzhou city Disabled Persons' Federation have neither fixed school buildings nor decent classrooms. And the salary for hiring teachers is only 60 yuan every month. Jia Daoying took the first batch of five deaf-mute children back to the rental house in the city and taught them lip-synching and pronunciation over and over again every day.
However, after struggling for half a year, the language training class finally disintegrated for various reasons. Jia Daoying looked at the five children who were recruited at first and thought: Since deaf-mute children came to this world, they have the right to enjoy life, and they should live happily with healthy children under the same blue sky; Now, just because you can't hear or speak, you will live in a silent world all your life. What an unfair treatment! What a pity! She secretly made up her mind: she must knock on the closed door of life for deaf-mute children through her own efforts, through her own hard work and sweat!
Therefore, Jia Daoying took the initiative to "contract" the language training class that had been declared disintegrated: the Disabled Persons' Federation no longer provided funds for teachers, and everything was run by her own, and she was responsible for her own profits and losses. Next, Jia Daoying ignored the complaints of her parents-in-law and the discouragement of her husband's relatives and friends, raised funds, bought a venue, bought teaching AIDS for tables and chairs, invited a special education teacher for children, and started a language training class for deaf children for 18 years.
Secondly, in order to warm children's lonely hearts and cultivate their sound personality, she devoted all her deep maternal love to them.
It is very difficult to deal with deaf children, especially a group of children with different ages and great personality differences, from one to two years old to fourteen or five years old. It is conceivable that a deaf-mute child who has just entered school may not even be able to teach the simple spoken word "mom". Also, the language training class is full-time. Teachers teach during the day and take care of the children at night. At night, this one has to shit and that one has to pee. More often, one person cries and the whole class makes noise. When the children were finally put to sleep, it was almost dawn. -this kind of super mental and physical labor, the average person really can't bear it, but Jia Daoying finally gritted his teeth with amazing perseverance and tenacious will.
In order to get these children to talk as soon as possible, Jia Daoying never misses the opportunity to give them exercise. In the initial stage of language training, no matter what she does, she asks her children to say it before she is allowed to do it. Under her careful training and strict requirements, deaf-mute children who come to language training classes can generally reach the normal level of language expression after two to three years of intensive training.
In order to warm the lonely hearts of deaf-mute children and cultivate their sound personality, Jia Daoying always cares for them with his kind maternal love. Cheng Yaogang from dengzhou city was only one year old when he entered the class, and he could not walk. Jia Daoying put him in the back seat of his bicycle at work and let him sleep with him at night. In the early spring of 2000, a man in Yong 'an, Fujian sent his 3-year-old deaf-mute son to Jia Daoying's language training class, and there was no news from then on. Jia Daoying left the children abandoned by his father with him. Take your children to work and teach during the day, run around for the affairs of language training classes, go home at night, drag your tired body to bathe your children and put them to sleep; On holidays, she always puts on some new clothes for her children, goes to relatives' homes for dinner, and never forgets to bring her children.
Third, Cycas blooms and the dumb speaks. She finally knocked on the colorful life door of 846 deaf-mute children, basically restored the language function, went to the society and led to a colorful life path.
With Jia Daoying's unremitting efforts and the strong support of Dengzhou Municipal Party Committee and Municipal Government, Jia Daoying's language training class for deaf children has finally built a teaching building, with spacious and bright classrooms, comfortable dormitories and clean and tidy restaurants. At the same time, it also opened an intellectual development class, hired 8 teachers and 2 nurses to carry out children's language training, and the number of students in school reached more than 50 all the year round, truly becoming a veritable school.
In addition, because of its outstanding performance, the school was rated as the national slogan training department by China Rehabilitation Center for the Deaf, with a wider range of students, covering almost half of China. Many parents are attracted by it and have to give their children to Mr. Jia. During the period of 18, Jia Daoying finally knocked on the colorful life door of 846 deaf-mute children with his deep and holy maternal love and kind and generous mind, basically restored their language function and embarked on a social and colorful life path:
Dengzhou 19-year-old girl Yicao was deaf and dumb at the age of one and a half due to sudden toxic dysentery. Her family sent her to Jia Daoying's language training class with a try attitude. Thanks to Jia Daoying's careful irrigation, Cao Yong finally basically recovered his language ability, and was recruited as a dancer by the China Disabled Art Troupe. In 2005, he entered the performance of Guanyin with a Thousand Hands at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and became a dazzling artistic star.
Zhou Yijun, who won the second prize of the Henan Youth Calligraphy Grand Prix with excellent results, Jiang Lin, who was admitted to a famous university in Beijing with excellent results, and Zhang Libo, Hou Guo and Chen Rui, the children who just came out of the language training department, silently interpreted Jia Daoying's profound maternal love with their own practical actions and extraordinary creations!
My duty and mission is to lead those lovely and unfortunate deaf-mute children, through their love and dedication, to knock on the mysterious door of life and move towards a colorful life stage!
From 65438 to 2008, Jia Daoying almost spent his whole life knocking on the closed door of life for deaf children and creating a stable and comfortable learning environment for deaf children:
In order to ask an old expert about language training for deaf children, she once took out 100 yuan from 300 yuan's Spring Festival lucky money and set foot on the train to Beijing alone. On New Year's Eve, when firecrackers exploded and falling snowflakes, she was eating dry food and walking in the streets of Beijing in a hurry. ...
In order to avoid the interference of high-decibel gongs and drums used to stimulate children's eardrums in teaching to the normal life of surrounding residents, she had to rent another house and move again and again. Since 18 started school, she has moved 12 times. Every time she moves, she pulls the cart and carries the furniture by herself, and behind the cart, a group of deaf-mute children of different ages help. Therefore, she got an image nickname, called "Gypsy Woman" ...
In order to save time, she prepared three sets of pots and bowls at home, which were used in turn during the day and washed with a little gap before going to bed at night; Throughout the year, the family hardly ate a meal in jiaozi, because she was always too busy to cook. Once, when her son was ill, she put the biscuits by his bed, put a bedpan at the end of the bed, and then hurried to school. As a result, I came home at night and found my son in a coma with a high fever. Because of this, her husband almost divorced her ...
1994 In the spring, she unfortunately suffered from severe brain atrophy and was admitted to the Third Hospital of Xiangfan Air Force. But lying in the hospital bed, she couldn't let go of the children in the language training class. Finally, one day, while the doctors and nurses were not paying attention, she sneaked back to Dengzhou by car and dragged her sick body onto the podium.
Jia Daoying often said: "I have experienced ups and downs for more than ten years, but I will never regret it!" The value of my life lies in leading those lovely and unfortunate deaf-mute children through their love and dedication, knocking on the mysterious door of life and moving towards a colorful life stage! "
In recent years, Jia Daoying's touching stories have been published and broadcast in many news media, such as Economic Daily, Farmers Daily, Henan Daily and CCTV, which has aroused great repercussions in the society. She was also awarded the honorary titles of advanced individual helping the disabled in Henan Province, excellent mother in Henan Province, top ten mothers who touched Nanyang, advanced individual in dengzhou city, and heroine.