I think single mothers should start from these aspects:
1. From your own situation, if you want to give your child a sense of security, you must have a sense of security.
On the one hand, she is insecure because she left her ex-husband who lived with her day and night and even relied on her for a long time. In the face of many trivial things in life, parenting and children's education, she will feel powerless. On the other hand, she may be financially strapped. She used to be a full-time wife, but now she lacks financial resources and naturally feels insecure.
Based on the above two situations, I think single mothers should have a good attitude. In this case, they should be prepared to face all the problems in life positively. You still need to work hard to find a job from what you are good at. Now that you have given birth to a child, you should still be good at parenting. Try to exercise your skills in early education and other aspects. Many times, when economic problems are solved, many problems will be solved. Just try it.
So from the perspective of how to give children a sense of security, children from divorced families will lack some sense of security more or less. They may find it hard to bear their parents' departure, and even have a shadow in their hearts. There are examples of not wanting to get married in the future.
Therefore, when a mother does anything, she should consider the child's feelings to the greatest extent.
In fact, the best way to give children a sense of security is to find a responsible man to remarry and help children find the warmth from a complete family again.
Of course, stepmother or stepfather is the most difficult, which is a double test of personality and humanity. It's hard to find, but you can find it.
It is difficult to be a mother and a father. My mother thinks that life is not easy, especially as a minor and inexperienced child. In short, think more about the children!