? Methods and experience of educating children: making rules for children.
This is something that most families can't do. The so-called rules are the codes of conduct we set for our children according to our actual situation. Many times, we adults communicate with our children by our own emotions, which is easy to destroy the parent-child relationship. Children are often criticized for no reason. We should tell our children what to do and what not to do in advance. Moreover, the grasp of this standard is also a problem that needs serious consideration and must be formulated according to the actual situation of children.
? Try to talk with children for ten minutes every day.
The so-called conversation is a kind of relaxed and pleasant chat. Don't ask about study, but have a loving conversation with children, which is what very few families do. If you want to have a good parent-child relationship, I suggest keeping this habit as much as possible.
? 3. Don't reward children with materials easily.
Many times, we use too many material rewards to make children obedient and learn. This has a very bad influence, that is, it gives the child an illusion that his behavior changes are related to material things. In the long run, children will get into the habit of threatening their parents with behavior.
? 4. Cultivate children's independence
Our early education lies not in how much knowledge we have, but in whether children can gradually adapt to independence and take on some of their own things, and whether they can form the habit of being responsible for themselves without the help of adults. In fact, most children do not have this problem. Because parents are used to doing too many things to save trouble. We let children develop independent habits in the lower grades, so that they can absorb knowledge efficiently after the third grade. This is also very important.
? 5. Encourage children to explore and express their views on things.
Because of the exam, many parents are interested in standard answers. From my own point of view, I don't really care about the standard answer. The formation of children's thinking must go through trial and error. Only by constantly encouraging children to solve problems with their own thinking, children's thinking will continue to improve. When you are willing to listen to your children's voices, you will surely find a different world.
? 6. Parents should keep pace with the times and keep learning!
The subject and object of education are constantly rising, transforming each other and advancing with the times. For example, a child's high academic performance and good comprehensive quality are inseparable from the education of excellent teachers. Irresponsible teachers can't teach excellent students. Similarly, the superior family education environment, children's quality and temperament are different from others, a poor child, his parents will not be very good. The superiority of family environment is not the superiority of material life, but the study and living environment in which parents and children live in harmony. Therefore, if children want to be outstanding, parents must keep learning and making progress!