Core Tip: Sun Yikui, an early education expert, answers Ai Weihai's parenting news for you: With the development of society, a family has only one child. Kindergartens are mushrooming now, one after another. But the naive question is: how to choose a kindergarten? Sun Yikui, an early education expert, gave a detailed answer to this question and dedicated it to parents all over the world who are concerned about early childhood education! The education of young children is an urgent and unrepeatable event, which determines the fate of children's fundamental quality in their lives! Therefore, if you choose kindergarten without considering family education, you can say that you are choosing your child's future. Nevertheless, the interlacing is like a mountain. Amateur parents may have verbally heard that "three years old is responsible for the elderly, and seven years old is responsible for the elderly", but how many people really understand the subtle meaning? How many parents can attach importance to their children's "basic education" like the college entrance examination? Fortunately, more and more farsighted people are beginning to pay attention to preschool education-General Secretary Hu Jintao put forward an unprecedented call to "attach importance to preschool education" in the report of the 17th National Congress. Only after we know and understand the important role of preschool education can we discuss the choice of kindergarten. Choosing education is different from choosing ordinary daily necessities, or even buying a house. Because all goods can be guaranteed, returned, etc. The one-child education is one-off and intangible (even before 18 years old). Therefore, when choosing a kindergarten, our first consideration should not be the visible educational pattern, but the educational connotation invisible to the naked eye! Because education is a process of mental work, we should look at it with our eyes, not just with our eyes. According to the characteristics and laws of life growth, combined with the experience of developed countries in the world, I would like to provide five brief suggestions to parents: First, we should inspect the environment of kindergartens. Man is the product of the environment. Especially for young and naive children, the influence of the environment on him is pervasive and subtle, so it is particularly great. The essence of education is actually to create an atmosphere and influence, thus edifying and infecting the educated. Meng Mu moved three times just to create a good influence environment for Mencius. "There are many famous monks in the world"-this shows that the place of self-cultivation must give people a "pleasant" feeling; On the other hand, "go into bad places and get rid of unruly people"-this shows that the environment that gives people a bad influence will eventually ruin people's habits. Of course, there are evidences from psychology, physiology, biology, geography, human behavior and geomantic omen theory. It is children, not parents, who will spend the most important time of their lives in kindergarten. Therefore, when choosing a kindergarten, you must lead the children to experience it personally, and then let the children decide where to choose instead of the parents-the intuitive choice of the children is the most suitable choice (although sometimes it is not necessarily the best choice).

Second, we should examine the concept of running a park (school). The concept of running a school determines the realm of running a school; The state of running a school determines the level of running a school; The grade of running a school determines the quality of running a school; The quality of running a school depends on the texture; The quality of running a school determines a child's future. An educator can't give what he doesn't have to the educated. Creativity is the highest quality thing that school administrators can give. Therefore, a wise gardener must carefully study the concept of running a kindergarten. If the gardener has a clear goal, full of confidence, passion and pursuit, the kindergarten must be good. Even if the charge is low, the current hardware conditions are average, which is worth considering. If the concept is general and the hardware conditions are good, it should be regarded as an ordinary (ordinary) kindergarten. Third, we should examine the cultivation of teachers. Kindergarten teachers' professional quality and moral cultivation directly affect children's physical and mental development. Because children's hearts are closest to pure kindness, teachers with kindness and wisdom can pass on valuable educational energy to children. Specially trained teachers can understand the basic principles of preschool education and the characteristics of preschool children's physical and mental development, and can educate children in a targeted, scientific and effective way; Professional teachers generally have strong professionalism and love for children's education, which can effectively promote children's growth and success. Parents can communicate with teachers, understand each other's professionalism, sense of responsibility, personal accomplishment, educational philosophy and teaching methods, and observe each other's mental outlook. You can ask questions such as "What do you think is the most important quality of preschool teachers" and conduct in-depth research on teachers' comprehensive quality. Fourth, examine your expectations and dedication to your children. Family expectations determine children's choices. What you give, you will get. The emergence of a promising child is the result of family choice, family commitment and kindergarten commitment. Family education is soil, and school education is water. Only by integrating kindergarten education into the soil of family education can we cultivate talents who benefit the family and the country. Fifth, we should examine the reality of preschool education. There has never been a perfect preschool education in the world, and it is impossible to produce it in the future. We can only choose the best (not perfect) kindergarten that meets the above three most important indicators, and we can't wait for the perfect kindergarten to be produced before sending our children to the park. You know, before the age of three, the wisdom or quality that children lose every day is so sad and surprising! In any case, we must let the children accept the most valuable and meaningful influence and edification as soon as possible! Remember!

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