Therefore, it is difficult for children to do one thing honestly and wholeheartedly. My parents must have tried everything, but they just couldn't sit still. Even if they force their children to sit in their seats, their thoughts will drift to other places.
Curiosity is a good thing, but I'm afraid that children will be distracted and absent-minded. When studying. Therefore, focused training needs to start with dolls. Of course, shouting and urging are useless. Today, I will talk to you about cultivating children's concentration. Patience, care and scientific guidance are very important.
A child's poor concentration means that he has no patience and can't sit still. Let the children sit quietly for a while, let them read books and recognize cards, and then run away after a while, which is not kind. It is too difficult for him to sit quietly in that position, even if the boy is very active. Why are girls so noisy?
Some parents are more worried about their children's performance in learning, because some teachers have reported that children are prone to desertion at school and talk to classmates around them. Poor learning will also affect others' learning. This is not good, and other parents will have opinions and ask for a change of position.
Some parents also complain that their children are actually very smart, but they are too curious. Once something happens, they won't do what they are doing, and they are particularly sensitive and curious about their surroundings. In order not to distract the children, the family should be extra careful when studying, which is really tiring.
The reason for children's poor concentration is that concentration is not a trivial matter. Without patience and concentration, others can do the same thing well, but if there is carelessness and carelessness, it is likely to make things worse.
Learning is meticulous and serious, and children should not be allowed to develop the bad habit of carelessness and inattention, otherwise it will be difficult to get rid of this bad habit in the future. Of course, the specific situation is slightly different, and there are actually many possible reasons for not focusing.
1) not interested.
Interest is a heartfelt motivation. If a child is willing to know something or knowledge, then he will spend more thoughts on it, even if there is external interference, it will not impress him.
However, if there is a lack of interest, forcing children to press their seats will not be effective. His mind may have drifted to other issues of interest to him, leading to inefficiency, so it is not difficult to understand his desertion.
2) Physiological factors
During the growth and development of the body and brain, poor self-control is actually related to the nervous system. Some children with ADHD find it difficult to be quiet for a long time. For example, if they sit 1 hour in class, they will naturally feel irritable and have abnormal emotions. This situation requires consulting a doctor as soon as possible and receiving necessary treatment.
3) Family factors
Some children's inattention is actually related to family factors. One is the excessive doting of parents, and there are many tempting things in life. Without constraints, children will naturally choose to avoid things that require self-effort and effort, such as study. In contrast, eating, drinking and having fun is closer to people's deep inertia.
How to concentrate on practicing 1) pomodoro technique?
It is difficult to keep concentration for a long time, and parents should also consider their children's psychological and physical conditions, and cannot ask their children to do one thing for a long time. Concentration and patience need to be cultivated step by step. Here, I will introduce a kind of pomodoro technique to you.
Set time for children, starting from 20-30 minutes. During this period, children are required to maintain a high degree of concentration and rest for 5 minutes, which is actually similar to the time set in the school classroom. However, some children will not adapt to the 45-minute school class at once, so they will gradually increase their concentration time from a short time and their attention will gradually improve.
2) Finger reading training
Finger reading training won't last long. Parents can take some time out to exercise their children every day. Finger reading is carried out under the condition that children are required to maintain a high degree of concentration.
If you make a mistake, extend the time appropriately, so that the child will concentrate under the action of negative motivation. Finger reading training does not need to be too frequent, one day 10 minutes, or on weekends.
3) Thinking training
Thinking training is a very broad term. Here is a little advice for everyone, such as the classic "Let's find fault". By comparing two roughly the same patterns, we can find out the differences. This kind of training is easier to be accepted by children because of its game nature, and it can also exercise children's observation ability, killing two birds with one stone.