If we regard parenting as a system, the process of parenting is a complex system, and various factors and butterfly effects will have an impact on the final result, so our parenting style is not absolutely correct, and we can only choose the relatively correct way.

1, children are born imitators.

Therefore, what good qualities and virtues parents want their children to acquire must first set an example. You want your children to have high emotional intelligence and be considerate, which means you need to be considerate. Children are also emotional, and it takes some time to ease when they are sad. When children cry, they can understand their intentions and feelings in time. Sometimes children cry badly. We told them, don't cry, it doesn't hurt, you are a little man, you can't cry. . . And so on, children don't feel understood, and they don't learn to be understood.

2. unconditional love for children

Unconditional love for children means that parents should accept all the behaviors of their children, asking for nothing in return, and only regard their love as a gift to their children. No matter how we feel, how we think, how the children feel is the most important thing.

Don't punish children at will, and don't praise them at will?

3. Make rules and implement them amicably and firmly

Children with rules and boundaries will feel more secure. Helping children to make rules is not to have a reason to reprimand children, but to help children abide by this rule and try to let them know what will happen if they don't follow the natural and logical way, instead of parents covering the sky and having no room for discussion.