1. Before Bauer was born, we should cultivate Dabao's good expectations for his brothers and sisters and stimulate their interest in being brothers and sisters. The main way is to tell them that Bauer has someone to play with and grow up with after he was born. Even if his friends stop playing with him in the future, he has a permanent playmate, and he is still related by blood. You can also take Dabao to a family with two children and three children to let him feel the benefits of having brothers and sisters in advance.
Parents can tell bosses that brothers and sisters can play music together, build blocks together, build castles together and do many interesting things together, so that bosses will not feel bored even if they stay at home in the future.
2. After Bauer was born, although he is usually busy and tired with his children, he can't ignore Dabao, but he should show more love for him, not neglect him or yell at him. Even if he is naughty and makes you angry, it's all for your mother's attention.
When parents look at the problem from Dabao's point of view, they will understand why Bauer became more and more disobedient after he was born. In fact, he is just jealous and wants to win more love from his parents. If you can give them more love, he won't hate the boss.
3. Let Dabao attend the camp to take care of Bauer, and inspire his sense of responsibility as a big brother and sister, such as taking diapers, making Bao Xiao happy, telling stories to Bauer, and changing diapers with a little milk powder, expecting Bauer to grow up with him quickly.
4. Let the child's father participate in accompanying Dabao, take the child out to play in the playground, and accompany the child to do what he wants. In this way, Dabao is in a good mood and has a closer relationship with his father. Dad is involved in parenting. Don't let the two children be widowed. It is good for children for a long time and the relationship between husband and wife can be better.
Mom spends half an hour with Dabao every day, such as telling stories before going to bed. Mothers usually hug and kiss her children more, making him feel that Bauer's arrival has not affected his mother's love for him.
6. When the children grow up, let Dabao and Bauer play together, and mom and dad can also participate. They can play parent-child games together, such as driving a train, throwing handkerchiefs and playing hide and seek. , enhance everyone's feelings, you can play several times a week.
7. Buy toys, clothes and other things of all sizes. Can you buy them some gifts to make them happy?
When they quarrel with everyone, they should try to be fair and just. If they want to be punished, it is suggested that both children be punished together. If you only punish the boss, the boss will be very wronged.
In addition, not only children's education pays attention to methods, but also children's literacy education pays attention to methods. People's memory of pictures is very profound. Compared with boring words, they need to practice line by line. For example, Cat, Xiao and Shuai learn Chinese characters is a software that evolves pictures into fonts, so that children can learn Chinese characters in curiosity and happiness. My daughter has been exposed to Chinese characters since she was three years old, and now she has used more than 300 words a year. This is a good software for free.
Cats, handsome guys and Chinese characters are good examples of picture evolution in Chinese characters. Let children perceive the world and learn knowledge at the same time. This learning method and thinking ability are of great help to the heavy learning tasks in the future.