However, it was only after I really had sex with my parents that I found out that the original words were not groundless, but actually taught you a lesson. Originally, the influence of daily life on children is longer than that of every parent-child early education and school. As a child's first teacher, parents shoulder important responsibilities.
Sometimes, you can find the answer according to the film and television works. Look at these successful Jin Dian, which one is not clean and tidy, even the environment at home is the same. And those who always pay no attention to their own image and live in a chaotic environment, it is difficult to realize their dreams, and most of their daily lives are ordinary.
Speaking of this, many parents are gradually curious. What does the mess at home have to do with the future development of their children? Accurately speaking, the two are inextricably linked and can never be separated.
First, the impact of the living environment on children is not a bit 1. Emotional influence Faced with a messy house every day, children's mood will not be too good, and even feel a little depressed. Parents may think that making a mountain out of a molehill is making a mountain out of a molehill, but this is the case, supported by rigorous data and information. It is no exaggeration to say that the influence of environment on mood is fatal and has nothing to do with age.
2. Behavior affects the seemingly chaotic environment, but it also constantly affects children's actions. Clothes littered everywhere, toys scattered all over the floor, teaching AIDS that have never been found … these are all children's daily behaviors. Might as well ask, if you can't even find books and special tools to study, how can you get excellent grades?
3, the influence of habits Under the multiple influences of parents and the environment, children will be forced to admit. Slowly, his habits will change, and he will become a child with no logic and poor self-discipline. The most important thing is that the child doesn't work hard at all, because she never understands why she wants to be excellent.
Generally speaking, a messy family environment will hinder children's development. Moreover, it will also pose a certain threat to his physical and mental health. All the rooms are in a mess, there is no doubt that there are many harmful substances hidden, and all kinds of bacteria and virus dust will quietly invade the child's body. The adverse effects are really unpredictable.
Therefore, don't try to clean up the housework gradually with luck and provide children with a healthier lifestyle atmosphere. I firmly believe that my parents know: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" ? In order not to interfere with children, it is time to change slowly and pay more attention to the little things in life.
2. Tips for parents about cleaning and tidying up the house 1. Clean and mop the floor every day. Before going to bed at night, parents still remember to make time to clean the room and drag everyone over. When I get up like that in the morning, all the rooms are clean and tidy. Not only do I feel happier, I don't have to panic when I get up in the morning.
2, clothes cleaning, sorting washing machines have long been so convenient, why do you have to pile clothes at home? After washing and drying clothes and trousers, please put them in storage as soon as possible, and don't always hang them on hangers. It looks messy, and in the sun, it will continue to affect the service life of clothes and pants.
In essence, the cleaning and decoration of the house is very simple. The key is to overcome your inner laziness and don't give yourself reasons. Many parents would rather lie on the sofa and play with their mobile phones than stand up and do housework. The saddest thing is that I always comfort myself to "do it tomorrow". Just want to say: tomorrow is tomorrow, how many tomorrows are there? If you can't finish what you can do today, how can you educate your children to "finish what you can do today"?
Third, parents change and change their children's education by the way, and they are never afraid of being late. The best time is when parents are doing it and gradually influencing their children. According to his age, invite children to do different types of housework and re-create their world view.
Before the age of 3: Simply throw garbage, clean up, and put away your toys and children's picture books. At present, the key is to shape the child's sense of rules and let him gradually develop the habit of doing housework.
3-6 years old: In kindergarten, children develop not only their age, but also their mind and understanding. The most basic housework can be done well as long as parents guide it correctly, and it should be "applied" without reservation.
Over 6 years old: Do your own thing, which is also a necessary professional skill for primary school students. At the very least, children should pack their clothes, backpacks and clean the room in time.
Write at the end: housework has nothing to do with age. Don't think that children can't do well just because they are young. In fact, children are far more arrogant than adults think. As long as the other party works hard, it will definitely do a lot of things well.