Children around the age of three are sensitive, ranging from family environment and familiar relatives to unfamiliar kindergartens and unfamiliar teachers. Children are prone to anxiety of parent-child separation, which brings heavy insecurity to the baby. However, this adaptation period is often a process in which their babies exercise their adaptability. If parents do not handle their children properly, it will adversely affect the formation of a good parent-child relationship and may seriously affect their lifelong personality. But don't worry too much. Parents can help their children get through the "anxiety period" better by doing the following.

1. Develop good habits in advance

Parents should be fully prepared. First of all, they should make a good schedule in advance, establish a sense of ritual by going to bed on time or listening to some bedtime stories, and cultivate children's good schedule. Secondly, it is necessary to exercise children's independent thoughts in advance and set an example by telling stories; Or consciously give feedback and guidance in the interaction with children, so that children can realize that they can make their own decisions and do many things by themselves.

yearn for

Let children yearn for kindergarten life. You can take your children to the store to choose school bags, stationery and other supplies. You can tell children more stories about going to kindergarten, tell them that there are toys in kindergarten that they don't have at home, and have many friends to play with, and tell them that they can learn a lot of things they didn't know before in kindergarten. Don't give children reasons to persuade them to be independent and sensible, because children will be sensitive to their parents' concern, but they will be more nervous. The best way is to look forward to and celebrate kindergarten with children in advance.

3. Give full play to children's autonomy and selectivity.

Let children choose kindergartens in person, and parents can choose one or two kindergartens in advance, and then take their children to visit the experience. After returning home, ask the children carefully, communicate with them, and try to choose the kindergarten they like. This can reduce children's resentment by virtue of their love for the school environment.

Parents can also choose some parenting story partners guided by early education psychology in advance. Bian Xiao here recommends the baby-rearing partner of penguin fairy tales: Bieber Doll Adaptation Park. It can help parents guide their children into the park calmly.