Therefore, as parents, don't force children to do things they don't want to do. Since she doesn't want to have children, she won't. Can't you see the current social and realistic situation clearly? How expensive it is to raise a child. From birth. Keep it until you graduate from college. It is unbearable without a certain economic foundation.
As the older generation, you may think. What kind of economy and what kind of life. Kid. Buy him good things if you have more money. With less money, you don't have to buy him so many things when you grow up. But young people nowadays don't have this idea. Most of them think. Raising children. Just raise the children well. It can even be said that it is necessary to raise high quality. So after birth, diapers, milk powder. Even a milk bottle with milk powder. The price is outrageous. It's normal for high-end products to cost one or two hundred yuan a bottle, or even more. Young people always think. I want to give her children the best, so I buy everything expensive. The end result is that I can't afford it, because I don't have such good financial ability. This is still in its infancy. When you come back to kindergarten, an ordinary kindergarten may charge 2000 yuan a month. High-end kindergartens charge more than 654.38+10,000 yuan a month. Plus other expenses. Spending more than 1 10,000 per month. These young parents. I just want to send my children to an upscale place. Now they all choose to attend early education classes. An early education class is about 30 thousand a year. I have to go to a logical thinking training class. The cost of this logical thinking training class is also 30 thousand a year after the kindergarten ends, and there is still one year left. Young transfer class. This fee is also 30,000 yuan, and the price I am talking about is still the price of a third-and fourth-tier city. If you live in a first-and second-tier city, what do you think the price is? So young people have already measured themselves. His income is not that high. He won't have children. Because I'm afraid my children won't get the best. So what's their opinion? If I can't give my child a better life, I won't bring her into this world.
It is this concept that makes many young people afraid to have children now. Besides, it's really tiring to take care of children, especially once lesbians give birth to children, there is no one to help take care of them. This means that she must quit her job and take care of the children at home full time. The income of two people becomes one person. There is another high-spending child. Imagine that two working-class people in one class can't bear it.
Finally, let's relax. Young people will not have children unless they have children. There is no need to force them to have children. The birth rate in our country has dropped sharply. Not bad for your daughter. In your lifetime. It is best to help and take care of your daughter. He may not be able to take care of you when you are old. Because he has no time. So you haven't seen it? Raising children to prevent old age is just empty talk. Eventually you will get old. Probably a nursing home. The children are very busy. They are working. It is impossible to take a lot of time to take care of you. So that's not what I mean by raising children to prevent old age. It is better not to point if you are not born.