China will be aging in more than ten years, and the number of elderly people will even reach more than half of the total population. Therefore, solving the population problem has become a top priority. The second child policy has been liberalized for several years, but the population growth is still slow. Now the state encourages the birth of a third child, but the enthusiasm is not high. The root of this problem, in fact, still can't afford to give birth, can't afford to raise.

The cost of raising a child is too high. For an ordinary family like me, the cost between kindergarten and college graduation is almost empty. A child is still like this. If there is one more, parenting will become the biggest obstacle to having children. A child grew up in various early education classes, cram schools and interest classes. One hundred yuan per class is the standard, just like I earn more than one hundred yuan a day and still can't see the sun at both ends. But I don't want my children to lose at the starting line. Another is that the demand of society for women is still very high. For example, there are age requirements for finding a job, and better units will no longer accept it after the age of 35. Thirty-five years old is the best age for school-age students to have two children, but they can't support their families and have no financial ability to have another child. Children suffer, adults suffer. That is the reality.

I don't have children at all. How can I have a second child? If I want to have a second child, I must buy a house and a car first, and then find a girlfriend to marry and have a second child. Haha, it seems that there is still a long way to have a second child.

For those who have never had a child, why don't those people have a second child? I think it may be related to the following reasons.

1. You can't afford a child, let alone a second child.

2. One child is fine, but having a second child is too tiring and troublesome.

I want to be free. I'm still a baby who hasn't grown up. I don't want a second child.

I regret having my first child, and the second child won't be born again.

5. Why do you have so many children? A child is fine, a child is a boy, what will happen if you are a boy again.

From the point of view of people who have never given birth to a child, people who don't want to have a second child have various reasons, and the main reason is stress. In fact, China pays attention to the wealth of the population. Many people must have a lively family, but now people's ideas have changed.

If we can resist the pressure and overcome the difficulties to have a second child, then when we get old, our most precious wealth may be our children. By that time, wealth is not important to us, only family is the most precious. Lonely, lonely children make a phone call, come and see every three or five times, chat with them, have a lively, warm and happy meal together. Being able to enjoy family happiness is the greatest happiness of the elderly in this life.