I was very sad to hear my daughter say aunt. I can't help looking in the mirror. I wear sloppy pajamas, dark circles and a chubby figure ... this is completely different from the wedding photo.
After having children, I put all my energy into them. I used to like dressing up and studying. I haven't bought clothes or touched books in recent years. I voluntarily gave up growing up. In my world, except housework, I am a child.
I have heard many mothers say that their world has completely changed since they had children. Before I became a mother, I always went out with liquid foundation, lipstick and cotton pad. You can do anything you want except work, even if you stay up until midnight at night. When you become a mother, bring a bottle, a cup and a wet tissue when you go out. Every day is feeding, putting the children to bed, changing diapers and attending early education. ...
Some people say that after a woman becomes a mother, she will have children and a family in her world, but she will not have herself. However, is the maternal love that "wronged oneself and fulfilled the child" really what the child wants?
Song Qian, a single mother in the TV series Little Joy, sacrificed her personal life and showed "all-round" concern for her daughter. Even at the expense of quitting her job as a famous teacher, she took full care of her daughter's life.
However, such efforts have caused great pressure on her daughter, and misunderstandings and contradictions between mother and daughter have erupted constantly, and her daughter even suffered from depression. ...
In fact, when a mother needs to love her children at the expense of herself, she has already embarked on a wrong path. Mom never thought about how much love a child really needs. Therefore, the mother who really loves her children is the one who can lead them to grow up healthily, love her own growth, be conducive to family harmony and children's growth.
Grow up to be a strong mother and give her children the best example.
In 2020, Narina, a 43-year-old herdsman from Siziwangqi, Wulanchabu City, Inner Mongolia, took her son to take the college entrance examination, and both passed the undergraduate course line! Use your own actions to become an inspirational role model for children.
Growing up with her children, Narina found that her love of reading was affecting her two children. She began to study hard and set a good example for them. When her son was in high school, as a mother, Na Rina suddenly had a wonderful idea. It would be meaningful if she could take the college entrance examination in the same year as her son. Thinking of her, I began to take action, while letting my son prepare the materials for the college entrance examination, and at the same time, I went to Hohhot Re-reading School to register for re-reading. In this way, Narina once again began a decent student life, racing against time. The children were encouraged to see their mother study so hard.
Finally, the college entrance examination results came out. Na Lina's son scored 520 points, and she passed the second line of Mongolian (Mongolian) with 404 points! Was admitted by Inner Mongolia University of Finance and Economics majoring in tourism management.
Dong Qing once said, "Because of my children, I think I should try to make myself better, so that when he really understands, he will love and respect you, and he can learn some good qualities from you. Children are not the reason why I stopped. I want to grow up with him. "
The word "mother" is just a title and an identity, not a label and a shackle. Only by learning to love yourself can we reduce the burden of decompression and embrace this interesting world enthusiastically. Only by loving yourself can you have love in your heart and light in your eyes, and you can love your children better.