Finally, at about 2 pm on the 9th, I received a notice from the kindergarten. It was really like riding a roller coaster. Anyway, I got what I wanted. All anxiety, breakdown and joy are worth it.
? At the parent-teacher meeting, the director recommended a picture book for parents to see, saying that this picture book is the basis of the school-running concept in the park. I bought it when I placed the order, and I was deeply touched after reading it. As the director said, this book should be read over and over again. Every time you read it, you will have different feelings, and every time you tell it to your child, you will be inspired to varying degrees.
The harvest of parenting, when I deal with parenting, a lot of knowledge, including values, comes from friends around me, bloggers who are concerned about official website, my own experiences and so on. , roughly formed a point of view that I still need to teach my children more. The earlier you teach, the better, the more you teach, the more children are exposed to, the greater your choices in the future, and the more opportunities you have to succeed in society. This view is the starting point of all my parenting, and it costs money. After reading this picture book (about three days 10 times), I have changed a little, or wavered.
First of all, it was winter when the master sent seeds to the three disciples. Is winter suitable for sowing? Of course not. Disciple 1 started at once, and sent out the desire to plant first. Disciple 2 is thinking about how to plant it. Only Apprentice 3 thinks I have seeds. The reaction of these three disciples is the same as that of all parents. Apprentice 1 and Apprentice 2 are just my feelings. Although I never thought about teaching children to be the so-called first, I always thought about how to do it like Apprentice 3.
? Secondly, after getting the seeds, Ben and Kyoto began to take action. Ben immediately began to look for hoes and began to dig holes and sow regardless of the ice and snow. Finally, his seeds will definitely not germinate. When he got such a result, he gave up at once. Jing exhausted all kinds of methods and instruments, but also failed. Only Ann, when it is time to sweep the snow, cooks when it is time to cook, and goes shopping in the temple instead. Ben and Kyoto failed, but Ann hasn't started yet. Seeing this, I can't help thinking, is it right to win at the starting line? What is the original intention of early education? Can children be taught English and math nowadays? Can you help them adapt to their future studies? What I'm teaching now is literacy and reciting poems, right? In fact, back to this story, everything is still the seed itself. If you follow the development of seeds and pay attention to the seeds themselves, you may have unexpected gains!
Finally, Ben and Jing failed. Winter passed and spring came. Only Ann found a pond, planted seeds and germinated slowly. In summer, beautiful lotus blooms. It seems to be a simple truth, but how many parents, including me, pay more and more attention to the results and ignore the seeds (children) themselves on the road of utilitarianism. Am I right? In the name of love, I think the future development of children is wrapped in my own thoughts, right? Perhaps, when the seeds are sown in spring, smallpox will bloom in summer! Although there is a bribe in it, you may gain more by doing what you should do at the right time, doing what you should do well and paying attention to the work itself.
The picture book "The Seed of Ann" actually doesn't say anything, and you know all these reasons. But when I read it, I felt very deep. I have a different perspective on parenting. There are always a lot of ideas and knowledge on the road to parenting. What is right? Is it suitable for children? There is a good screening, in short, with a heart waiting for flowers to bloom, do a good job every day and every moment, I think, seeds will sprout and flowers will bloom!