Children usually cry for about two weeks when they go to kindergarten. Parents must insist during this time. Never fish for three days and dry the net for two days. This will make the child's mood more unstable, and even lead to all previous efforts being wasted. Individual children will continue to cry for a month or more. At this time, parents should communicate with the teacher to understand the specific situation of the baby in kindergarten every day.
Theoretically speaking, children crying in the park is a typical emotional reaction. Crying "makes parents feel sad, anxious and helpless; It also makes kindergarten teachers in a hurry and at a loss. Kindergarten is a very strange environment for children, and the insecurity and fear of this strange environment are the most fundamental reasons for children to cry. The reason is that I'm getting used to it because I'm young. Everyone is the same. If I don't adapt to the new environment like an adult, I will have emotions. ...
Is there any way to make children cry less and adapt to the study life in kindergarten as soon as possible? Below I will share with you some simple methods I have summarized ~ ~
1, get familiar with it first, solve the strangeness, and the children are curious.
Before entering the park, children should be psychologically prepared and let them know more about kindergartens. For example, we can role-play at home. Parents play children, crying at school, and children play parents and comfort their children. Through this constant role exchange, children can be subtly "psychologically persuaded".
Let the children get familiar with the kindergarten in advance before entering the park. Parents often take their children to play in the garden to see how their brothers and sisters are doing in the kindergarten, ask them if they want to sing and dance, read children's songs, play with toys and tell stories like them, show them around the classroom, show them some beautiful wall paintings, and tell them that they were painted by teachers. Kindergarten teachers like babies best. Make them yearn for kindergartens and have a certain attachment to teachers, so that children will not feel particularly strange and afraid in a relatively familiar environment.
2, a common way in life, encourage+praise, do it.
When walking on the road, don't talk about negative topics, such as being obedient and obedient. Instead, you should remember the story of you going to kindergarten with your children, divert their attention and let them know about kindergarten faster.
Once children enter the park and start collective life, teachers should pay attention to individual differences and treat children with different personality characteristics differently. For example, praise and encourage some gentle, timid and intelligent children and tell them in a friendly tone: "You are teachers' good treasures. You really have the ability to go to kindergarten without crying or making trouble. Teachers like you, and so do parents and grandparents. "Give them some small red flowers, small toys, small books, small sweets and other prizes, which can appease some children and set a certain example for crying children.
3, changes in the environment, changes in characters, and novelty to attract children.
When you go to kindergarten, you should take the initiative to introduce your children to the surrounding environment, such as teachers, classmates and toys. Let children quickly establish contact with the surrounding environment, and then they will have psychological advantages.
Distract children from what they are interested in. For example: novel toys, newly popular cartoons, children's familiar music, fun games and so on. Let them be attracted by these things, relieve and dilute the anxiety and pain of separation. Allow children to bring their favorite toys from home to reduce the strangeness of kindergarten. In addition, teachers can create some novel, interesting and childlike environments before the start of school, such as the wall decoration of "family", with pictures of mom and dad loving each other, and the corresponding pictures of teachers and children loving each other and playing games below. Let children know that mom and dad are closest at home and teachers are closest in kindergarten, so as to narrow the gap at home and make up for the emotional gap of children.
4, brother and sister help method
There are also some children who are particularly excited. From the beginning, they refused to accept the teacher and ignored any help from the teacher, because they thought the teacher was the root of all this "pain", and it was precisely because the teacher separated themselves from their relatives that they were miserable. In order to narrow this psychological difference of children, we can let our brothers and sisters in the kindergarten class accompany us and let them play games and tell stories with their children. This is because they are not much different in age, and they are easier to get along with children than teachers (and some children have their own brothers and sisters, and they brought them up at home). Therefore, we can make full use of the advantages of easy communication between children to comfort and help.
Never mind, the child will see the situation clearly.
Very few children who take outrageous and extreme measures (such as rolling on the ground and crying, attacking themselves or their teachers) should be treated rationally. Because, as Patty Weaver said, they "need to cry", and when all else fails, they might as well try to "take it in stride".
It's not that he does harm to himself or others regardless of whether he asks or doesn't ask, but he is treated "rationally" on the premise of ensuring the safety of young children and himself, squatting beside him, looking at him kindly and listening patiently; Give children a chance to adapt and relax, and a chance to communicate with teachers.
Final summary
Why do children go to kindergarten? In fact, it is essentially the process of children expanding their circle of trust, from parents to teachers and friends. Every parent may take some detours when sending their children to the park, but in any case, we must master scientific and reasonable methods to help their children as much as possible and make their transition better.
There are also some precautions for taking the park:
First, be sure to pick up the garden on time. Parents who keep their word will reduce the resistance of their children to enter the garden the next day and let them have trust in their parents.
Second, don't talk about negative issues on the road, such as: "Did you cry today?" Did you eat well? "On the contrary, we should talk to children about some interesting topics, such as asking them to describe new friends in kindergarten or some fun toys, which can make children feel better about kindergarten.
Third, when children are separated from their parents for the first time, they must spend enough time with their babies, and let them release their stress and keep a good mood through some parent-child games.