What should we pay attention to in the early education of April 21st Family? There are two factors to maintain the development of ancient society, one is material production, and the other is that material reproduction is mainly aimed at men and population reproduction is aimed at women. Therefore, since ancient times, men have been mainly engaged in production and foreign exchanges, so men inherit surnames on behalf of families, educate their children in time and maintain family stability; So women represent nationalities and religions. However, with more and more women entering production posts, surnames are just a habit. Clan society is disintegrating because of the only child.

Nobody cares much about this family. At present, there are many problems in 4.2. 1, the most prominent one is the child's surname. A name is just a code name. First of all, surnames can be traced back thousands of years in the history of the Chinese nation. In different dynasties, people always regard surnames as particularly important, because surnames not only represent blood relations and kinship, but also represent their complex social relations. More importantly, it is a normative constraint on ethics. Secondly, surnames are also a family cluster and an important part of family history.

This is what people call a root. It is precisely because of the importance of surnames that family members are surrounded by walls and fallen leaves return to their roots. It will make young people work hard for it and let the wandering old people have a home. This is also a belief of our Chinese nation. Nowadays, there are more and more 42 1 families, and the thoughts of the older generation are also influenced by historical reasons. They still attach great importance to their children's surnames. From this perspective, they should talk about their views from several aspects. Before couples get married, young people should ask their parents for advice. If there is little difference between parents, my principle is husband's surname, because after all, it has existed for thousands of years, and there will not be much explanation for children's future education, which is also conducive to children's traditional education.

If the parents are too different, my suggestion is that boys take their father's surname and girls their mother's surname, because there are still differences in education between boys and girls. Boys will face more social problems than girls in the future. Boys with the same surname as their fathers will be more confident and sunny when they grow up. He won't feel inferior and closed because of the question "why are all my classmates surnamed Dad, but my surname is Mom". In principle, I don't recommend that children add their parents' surnames and change them to double surnames. Because family name is family history, your family history constitutes the history we know now. We don't want our children to start from their generation and let them know their family history when they grow up for their own history. This generation has the same surname. What about their next generation? ?