Educating your children and our students is our common responsibility and desire. Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to participate in this parent forum, which shows that you are a qualified parent who pays special attention to the growth of your children.
In the senior high school entrance examination of XX, 360 students (including art students) were promoted to national model high schools, and grades XX and 20 12 also achieved excellent results in district sampling. Therefore, Yibin No.8 Middle School won the Special Excellence Award for Teaching Achievements with the first place in comprehensive evaluation this school year. In particular, after Deng, our graduates won the first and second place in Cuiping District in XX. In this year's senior high school entrance examination, Xiang Qian, a graduate of our school, won two first places in the city's senior high school entrance examination. In this year's college entrance examination, Lan Yunke and Li Zheng, two graduates of our school, won the first place in the arts and sciences of Yibin College Entrance Examination respectively.
As far as Grade 20 12 is concerned, through the joint efforts of all our teachers and students, especially the parents present, most of our students in Grade 20 12 have made great progress in various aspects such as behavior norms, study habits and academic performance. As far as test scores are concerned, during the school year, there were * * 65438 students with 680 points or above in senior high schools in the whole region.
Dear parents, it has been a whole academic year since your child entered the national advanced school of moral education and Yibin No.8 Middle School, a demonstration school of compulsory education in Yibin. In a blink of an eye, your child has entered the most important stage of Grade Two. The second grade of junior high school is an important turning point. In terms of age, your child is bidding farewell to adolescence and entering adolescence. In terms of knowledge, with the growth of grade, the content of learning will March to breadth and depth, and the requirements for learning will be further improved.
When your children face these new problems independently, they often encounter many difficulties and setbacks. How to guide children through this important turning point and live a full and meaningful second grade, I think there are many problems worthy of our attention.
First: Help children to establish correct life goals.
Generally speaking, after entering junior high school, some students gradually begin to consider the influence of study on their future. People who can do this are very active, conscious and hard-working, and it is easy to grasp themselves. However, it should also be pointed out that there are still quite a few middle school students whose learning motivation is not beyond the scope of their own learning activities. Such middle school students are often only willing to work hard on subjects they are interested in. Once they are praised in their studies, they will have the motivation to learn, and they will be easily discouraged when they encounter setbacks. One of the tasks of parents is to correctly let these children combine their studies with their own future, destiny and even the happiness of the whole family, and establish a correct learning motivation.
Cai Xiao, the author of My Occupation is Being a Father, is an ordinary father, but he has trained one of his six children to be a master and five to be overseas doctors. "Playing the father as a career" is a sentence that Cai often talks about. Cai Xiaoxiao said in summing up his teaching experience, "My educational methods can be summarized into three types: one is early education, which pays attention to the intellectual training of children before they are three years old and lays a good foundation for their learning; The other is determination to make children have lofty aspirations, open-minded and positive progress from an early age. The third is to cultivate good learning methods. What I educate my children is not specific knowledge, but learning methods to improve their learning ability. "
Second: the goal of guiding children's life needs to be decomposed.
There is a Japanese marathon runner who has won many international championships. His name is Yamada Benichi. In his later autobiography, he said: "Before every race, I have to take a car to carefully watch the route of the race and draw eye-catching signs along the way. For example, the first sign is the bank, the second sign is the red house ... and so on until the game is over. After the race started, I rushed to the first goal at a speed of 100 meters. When I reached the first goal, I rushed to the second goal at the same speed. The competition of more than 40 kilometers is divided into such small goals and completed one by one. " There is also an American named John. As early as 15 years old, he made a list of things he had done in his life. Every item in the "Life List" is numbered, exceeding *** 120. 44 years later, 59-year-old John has achieved the goal of 106. He won many honors, and he said that he must complete every goal on his "life list" in his lifetime.
In fact, if three years in middle school is compared to a 3000-meter long-distance race, everyone will stand on the same starting line in the first school year and have the energy and enthusiasm to finish the first stage of the start, while the second school year is the embodiment of endurance and endurance. At this stage, some students persisted, while others gave up halfway, not because of great difficulties, but because of tactical problems. The learning process of students is the same as John's life goal. If we refine our learning goals into a "life list" and constantly complete the goals on the list, then every day of our lives will have some specific goals. When we complete the set goals every day, we will enjoy the joy of success. When we finish today's goal, we will go all out to finish tomorrow's goal with confidence.
As parents, we should guide our children to set their own phased goals and accomplish them one by one, so that children can have a sense of accomplishment and enjoy the joy of learning, and they can always motivate themselves with new goals and not let themselves relax. Step by step, you can meet the challenges of life with confidence.
Third: tell children that achieving goals requires the power of will.
Ma Yun, president of China's largest e-commerce platform and founder of Taobao, said: It takes the strength of will to achieve the goal, and success is always associated with sweat and tears. As parents, let children understand: what to do and what not to do; Let students understand that they should do what they should do first and then do what they like. In addition, according to the law of students' physical and mental development, senior two students should have in-depth reading in knowledge, be knowledgeable, memorize by rote, and read more useful extracurricular books. Students of this age should also enter deep thinking in their thinking.
As parents, we should also cultivate students' ability to resist setbacks. The first lesson started on September 1 this year. Two people with the same fate shocked all our teachers and students. The man's name is Yang Mengheng. At the age of seven, he was injured by high-voltage electric shock and his arms were amputated at a high position. After he won the seventh place in the national swimming competition through his own efforts and strong perseverance, he returned to the school after two years' absence, lived with his feet, turned over books and wrote, and was admitted to Sun Yat-sen University with far-reaching local achievements this year. Another young man who was amputated by electric shock was Liu Wei. He used his feet to realize the piano dream that many people could not achieve with their hands.
Therefore, as parents, we should tell our children; It takes willpower to achieve your goals. No one can succeed casually. Success is always associated with sweat and tears.
Fourth, family education should return to loving mothers in strict father.
As the saying goes, "a good example is better than twenty teachings." Parents should really set an example for their children in thought, study and personality. It is necessary to create a good learning atmosphere and spiritual atmosphere for children. Parents who just innocently ask their children about their academic performance or kiss their children on the forehead after going to bed are incompetent parents.
As parents, we should try our best to become a caring person in the process of children's growth: see whether the school uniform is standardized (living habits) every day; See if he has finished his homework (study habits) every day, and see if he is happy when he comes home from school today (happy study); See which classmates and friends he plays with (physical and mental health); Listen to his comments on school life and teachers (kiss their teachers and trust their ways); Pay attention to children's daily progress (praise and encouragement); Create a good learning environment for children (environmental edification); Ensure two hours of self-study time (learning efficiency) at home every day; Polite, filial and diligent education (all-round development) for children at home and so on.
Dear parents, in fact, in any case, the best way of education is to educate children to manage themselves and educate themselves. Parents should seize every opportunity of education and strive to improve the level and ability of self-education of middle school students. We look forward to it, and we have reason to believe that in the near future, your children and our students will become a healthy person, a successful person and a useful person to the country and family.
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September XX 17.