However, it turns out that sending children to early education institutions too early is not good for their development. Due to the vast market of early education institutions, everyone wants a piece of it, and the shortage of teachers, the quality of teachers in some early education institutions is not as good as that in ordinary kindergartens, which is not conducive to children's intellectual guidance.
Experts say that the best education for children comes from the family. But many parents don't believe that they have to send their children to early education institutions. They thought that their children would be very different after the teacher's professional education, but the fact disappointed their parents.
A large number of cases tell parents not to send their children to early education institutions for two reasons:
Children are easily tired of learning.
Children are very dependent on their parents when they are young. Suddenly sent to an early education institution. When faced with unfamiliar teachers and unfamiliar children, they are forced to learn something they have never seen before. Naturally, they are unhappy.
Strong resistance will lead children to be tired of learning, which will not only hinder their study, but also affect their future study and education. Parents can teach their children some simple manners first. In the face of familiar people, children's resistance will be slightly lower and they will learn things slowly.
The children were deprived of their childhood.
The happiest time in a child's life is childhood. No study troubles, no work pressure, no ease. Parents send their children to early education institutions, depriving them of a happy childhood and preventing them from enjoying a relaxed and happy life. When children grow up, it will be sad to recall childhood as an institution.
A happy childhood will also greatly affect children's future happiness. Having a happy childhood will make children maintain a positive and optimistic attitude in their future lives, otherwise, children will often be hindered by pessimism in their lives.
Although it is not good for children to send their children to early education institutions too early, many parents still choose to send their children to early education.
This is because parents have three misunderstandings about early education:
1 misunderstanding of books
Many parents want to be good parents before their children are born and collect all kinds of parenting books. Many parenting books will talk about the golden learning period of children aged 0-3. Parents instinctively believe that we must seize this golden age and let our children win at the starting line. 2 parents' quality is not high
Parents want to send their children to early education institutions because they are afraid that their children can't teach well and want them to receive science education. The previous generation of parents had poor living conditions, and many parents had low educational level, but modern society advocated scientific parenting.
So many parents are afraid of delaying their children's golden age. Even if they are not rich, they still choose to send their children to early education institutions.
3 parents' educational worries
As a parent, I absolutely hope that my children can get excellent academic results and find a good job in the future. In the early education institutions in droves, some parents see that others have signed up their children, fearing that they will fall behind, and they are anxious to help their children sign up, thinking that spending money will definitely make their children progress.
Parents' misunderstanding of early education leads to children entering early education institutions at an early age and being forced to receive education. But in fact, early education is the best choice for parents.
So what should parents do?
Use the power of music
Music can relieve a person's stress, and music can make children feel happy. Parents can play some children's songs or knowledgeable songs to their children, so that they can increase their sense of rhythm and memory in the process of repeated singing. This helps to improve children's memory to some extent.
Take advantage of the surrounding environment
What children need to learn most when they are young is the excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation, such as honesty, courage and courtesy. These are parents who can guide their children to learn step by step through normal communication and the surrounding environment. Learning good moral character mainly depends on the guidance and guidance of parents.
Take advantage of children's interests
Children need to learn independence most in early education, such as eating and dressing themselves. Parents can encourage their children to learn to do these things by guiding them to be interested in them. At the same time, when children are interested in something, parents should be happy, because interest is the best teacher.
Parents should not worry too much about their children's future, and don't jump to conclusions too early. When children are young, the most important thing for parents is to accompany their children, give them enough love and make them feel safe. Many parents are eager for success and send their children to early education institutions too early, thinking that their children will be smart in the future. But what children at this stage need most is a happy childhood, not what their parents force them to learn.