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Whether the economic conditions of both parties in marriage are important or not is a question that has been asked countless times.

When you decide to climb this mountain called marriage with a person, you wear professional hiking shoes and carry a professional hiking bag, but look at your hiking partner, wearing a pair of slippers and carrying a plastic bag. How would you feel?

You asked him why he didn't wear hiking shoes, but he said he didn't have the money to buy them. He patted his chest and said, Don't worry, I will never hold you back and never bother you.

So you believed it and went on the road together. Within a few steps, the upper of his slipper was broken, but it still worked. You use the tools in your backpack to help him fix it, and then continue on the road. It didn't take him long to finish the dry food in the plastic bag, so he began to reach out to you for food. Can you climb to the top of the mountain hand in hand? Did you enjoy your trip?

Some young people come together because of love, and many girls marry poor boys because of love. They think they will be happy even if they eat pickles all their lives. But after the passion, you will find that you still want to eat seafood.

Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. The moment you choose a poor boy because of love, you choose trouble for your family. Their families need help every three days. When you have children, their families can't help you share the financial burden. I can only watch my family work hard. How would you feel? Would you like a climber who has no dry food to give him several times? How long will your dry food last for you to climb the mountain?

Qin Xiao and Xiao Gang are such a couple. Xiao Gang is a Phoenix man, the kind who came out of the mountains. Qin Xiao belongs to the children who grew up in middle-class families in the city.

When we were together, Qin Xiao thought Xiaogang was a warm person, so he decided to build his own home with him. When I got married, Qin Xiao's family paid for the house. Qin Xiao believes that as long as he is self-motivated, family-oriented, and poor economic conditions are no problem.

In the first year, I needed to build a greenhouse at home and asked Xiaogang for money. The next year, they need to dig a well and ask Xiaogang for money. Moreover, relatives of Xiaogang's family began to borrow money from Xiaogang, and they would pay back the money every time they needed to be urged. Some things can be said before giving birth to a child. After giving birth to a child, neither person's salary is enough to support the child. Children's milk powder, diapers, early education and other expenses make them feel that life is very hard. Sometimes they have to rely on Qin Xiao's family to help, and Xiaogang has to send money home at the end of the year. Qin Xiao and Xiao Gang had a quarrel. In the quarrel, Qin Xiao felt that his family had paid too much, which was really unfair. Xiao Gang thought they were married, so they shouldn't be separated. Their love cracked, and Sogeum sometimes even felt hopeless.

Therefore, if we want to climb the top of the mountain together (grow old together), we must consider the economic conditions of both sides. I think there is some truth in this sentence.

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You must want a companion who can chat with you on the mountain climbing trip, so that the journey will not be boring. But when you find yourself lamenting the beauty of the mountain, he is talking about being bitten by mosquitoes last night.

This really happens in marriage. When you are thinking about discussing "The Years Are Quiet" with him. He wants to discuss "five kills" with you. When you want him to accompany you to the library or the cinema, he just wants to run to the Internet cafe.

Jing Li and Handsome got married through a friend's introduction. At that time, they got married because they were madly in love and didn't even know each other's usual hobbies.

Not long after we got married, we found that we didn't know each other at all and had nothing in common. Li Jing wants a handsome boy to accompany her to the movies and concerts. Shuai said he couldn't appreciate such elegant things. Shuai just wants to go to the internet cafe to play LOL with his brothers. Jing Li often goes to concerts alone, while handsome boys go in and out of Internet cafes with their brothers. When they were in love, there was no topic of * * *, and the marriage began to cool down from the heat.

There is no distinction between high and low hobbies, and some are not the same language as ta in marriage. No one who speaks the same language will make marriage boring. Love is like a condiment in marriage, and marriages without the same hobbies are sometimes as tasteless as boiled water.

When you climbed the mountain, you took 100 steps and found that he only took 50 steps. For the first time, you chose to wait for him in the same place. Keep walking while waiting, but you still can't keep up. You can't wait for him forever.

Xiao Min and Xiaolong are introduced. Xiaolong fell in love with Xiao Min at first sight, and only after several pursuits did he get Xiao Min's consent. However, Xiaolong only likes playing games, and he likes it very much. After getting married, Xiao Min found that Xiaolong really only had games in his eyes. When he is free, he will run to the Internet cafe with his friends, and things at home will start to be ignored. On the other hand, Xiao Min had to work hard to earn money to support his family. She met Xiaoding more than once, a hard-working and elegant man.

Xiaoding knows that Xiao Min's husband is a game fan and doesn't pay attention to housework, so he has been pursuing Xiao Min. Xiao Min hesitated at first. She refused Xiaoding several times and told her husband to work hard and not concentrate on the game. Xiaolong didn't listen. In the end, Xiao Min accepted Xiaoding's pursuit and divorced Xiaolong because she felt that there was a big gap between them.

In marriage, one party tries to make money while the other party spends every day on mahjong tables or Internet cafes. Not only does it not make money, but it also spends money everywhere. Your grades are being pulled open step by step, your horizons are different, and your thoughts are different.

Marriage, like climbing a mountain, needs the support of economic conditions, the protection of the same hobbies, and the concerted efforts of Qi Xin. Only in this way can we climb to the top of the mountain and grow old together during the day.