We know it takes a while for a child's physical development. Before children are two years old, their urinary system is very fragile, including bladder and sphincter. Generally speaking, children can adjust their bladder and sphincter by themselves from 3 to 3 and a half years old. Therefore, premature toilet training will not only bring pressure to children, but also bring tension to adults, and even bring resistance and future mental health to children.
Some children don't know how old they are until they change diapers. There is no standard age, but as they get older, they are more and more afraid of changing diapers. So many children wear diapers when they are five or six years old. The results show that children who quit smoking too late will have a negative impact on their psychological growth, especially the development of self-awareness and self-esteem. The researchers also found that these children become more and more introverted and less confident, which will affect their future interpersonal relationships.
The negative effects of parents' excessive tension
Some of my parents are very nervous. The child is afraid of not changing diapers. Many times, the more nervous parents are about asking their children to urinate or defecate in the toilet, some parents may threaten or accuse their children. In this family atmosphere, babies are also prone to nervousness. They are afraid of getting wet diapers or even sheets. A study shows that older children may lack attention and self-control in behavior and become emotionally sensitive if they are criticized by their parents or accused of urinating for a long time. Therefore, if parents are nervous, it will increase children's insecurity.
Once a mother asked. "Can I let my child pee before going out?" "In other words, she is worried that such a notice will increase the child's psychological burden. In fact, parents can encourage urination before going out, but don't force it. Besides, many of us adults like to compare "that man stopped at the age of one". This practice is also wrong. It will bring shame and more psychological burden to children. Children can't quit diapers when they are wet, can they? You need to know the reason and the correct method.
1, feeling afraid of defecation
Some mothers once said that children would rather shit than shit. What is the reason? Many studies show that little babies are afraid of the unknown. For example, some babies say, "Where did you go after the poop came out?" problem By contrast, when wearing diapers, shit is still in it.
2, hiding in the corner, like a toilet.
Some children push open the toilet because they want to hide, such as hiding in the corner of the room or hiding in the balcony partition. In this case, parents can consider putting the toilet in a place that children think is "secret" to gain a sense of security.
3. Highly sensitive infants
Some babies think that the edge of the plastic toilet is "ice". I don't like wiping my ass with paper towels, or these babies are often highly sensitive children. Using a touch or tactile brush in infancy will reduce the baby's high sensitivity.