Bao: Experts believe that the "swaddling method" can make the baby feel back to the uterus and gain a sense of security. The specific method is: wrap the baby with a cloth with the length and width of 1.5 meters, and try to wrap it tightly without hindering the baby's normal breathing.
Bao: American experts believe that newborn babies are actually not ready to adapt to the new environment. For them, coming out of the warm environment of the uterus is similar to letting ordinary humans fall from trees, which stimulates the "Moro reflex" that human beings are born with, which is manifested as crying. Holding the baby vertically or sideways will turn off this reflex and let the baby calm down as soon as possible.
Shh: In fact, the environment of the fetus in the mother's body is not very quiet, including the "brushing" sound of the mother's blood vessels flowing, the sound of the mother's heart beating, the sound of gastrointestinal peristalsis, the voice of speaking and so on. The newborn baby's eardrum is thicker, which is louder for adults and may be just right for newborns. Parents can "hiss" at their baby's ears, which also makes the baby very useful and can get a sense of security from it.
Shake it: In the mother's womb, whether the mother walks, sits and watches TV or turns over when sleeping, the baby feels as comfortable as taking a boat at sea, so a gentle shake will be liked by the newborn baby. However, experts remind parents to pay attention: the amplitude of shaking the baby should be small and fast, and improper shaking may lead to physical injury or even sudden death of the baby.
Sucking: the baby began to practice sucking fingers 3 months before the expected date of delivery. Put your finger in the baby's mouth or give him a pacifier.
What should I do if the child cries?
Treating children crying is the biggest headache for parents of only children. Beat, loathe to give up, coax, he doesn't listen, often at the expense of accommodating the child's request, ending the child's crying behavior. And this just provides a successful example for the child to cry next time, making him cry more fiercely and joyfully next time, forming a vicious circle. It should be said that children crying is the product of parents' doting. Spoiled children like to take me as the center and ask adults to do this and that. If they can't meet his requirements, they will cry on the ground. If this bad habit is further developed, the child will form bad habits such as picky eaters, selfish willfulness and rudeness, which is extremely unfavorable to his growth education.
When the only child is rolling on the ground and crying loudly, parents are often helpless, both distressed and helpless. Faced with this situation, I suggest my parents keep silent, or they can choose to go away and do other things and ignore him. Crying is essentially a temptation for children to their parents and a means to attract their attention. You ignore him and coax him, which virtually encourages his crying behavior. If you ignore him, his crying will fail, and the motivation to cry will be gone, and it will stop soon. What if a wayward child is crying? You can distract him in a way, such as making a phone call and saying a complicated thing (when the child is not present) to arouse his curiosity, and he will forget to cry. As long as parents are not used to bad children's hearts, there will always be ways to deal with them. It should also be reminded that parents' opinions must be consistent, and no one can be soft-hearted, otherwise the child's crying will stop.
Remember, after the child is emotionally stable, he should criticize it appropriately and point out that his crying is wrong.
The real reason why the baby keeps crying.
Almost all mothers have had the experience of being overwhelmed by the baby's crying. In fact, crying is a way for a baby who has no expressive ability to express his demands or pain. Therefore, when the baby is crying, a smart mother should know the baby's real needs, instead of being upset or blindly feeding. So what is the reason why the baby is crying?
First, there are two reasons for crying:
1. Physiological crying: caused by insufficient milk, wet diapers, mosquito bites, clothes that are too hot or too cold, clothes that are too tight, uncomfortable posture, defecation and other physiological or external stimuli. Or because it didn't meet the requirements of hugging.
2. Pathological crying: Any disease that causes physical discomfort or pain will cause the child to cry.
Second, the specific performance
Physiological crying
1. Hunger discomfort: Generally speaking, it is not urgent to cry at first, and you can stop crying if you meet the requirements, but if you don't attract the attention of adults, it will aggravate crying and may stop crying as soon as you touch the nipple. Sometimes there will be crying before defecation, which may be due to increased intestinal peristalsis or dry stool. There are also some babies who suddenly cry because their bladder is full during sleep.
2. Pain or fright: Crying caused by pain is generally intense and often happens suddenly. Coaxing, hugging or feeding can only calm down temporarily. If you look carefully, sometimes you will find that there are foreign objects in your baby's clothes that will sting your baby. When the baby is frightened by the loud noise, he will burst into tears. And often a look of panic.
3. Dream: Babies often burst into tears when they are in deep sleep, and will fall asleep soon after patting.
4. Crying at night: The law of waking up at night and sleeping at night is not innate. Babies spend most of their time in sleep after birth, and the time of sleeping at night will gradually extend with the decrease of breastfeeding times at night. But before waking up during the day and sleeping at night, crying at night may be caused by the above reasons. If my mother is accommodating in every way, such as picking her up in the middle of the night and taking pictures while walking, she will have to be coaxed. In just a few days, she will get into the bad habit of walking without patting her, not sleeping and crying without coaxing her. As a result, she will cry at night and fall asleep during the day, forming an abnormal phenomenon of sleeping during the day and waking up at night.
(2) Pathological crying
1. Rash: The baby often shows fidgety, does not cry violently, and hugs or feeding are ineffective. Carefully check whether the baby has a rash all over the body, especially whether there is wet skin erosion or eczema in armpits, groin, vulva and buttocks.
2. Oral diseases: babies cry as soon as they eat.
3. Ear disease: the external ear is long, and the Nordic baby's auricle will cause severe crying when it is pulled or chewed. In otitis media, the baby is often fidgety, scratching his ears with his hands and shaking his head when crying.
4. Intussusception: It is more common in obese babies aged 4 ~ 10 months, or babies with diarrhea. Paroxysmal crying with painful expression, often accompanied by vomiting.
5, intestinal spasm baby suddenly cried, often very intense. Hello, hug and coax all failed and stopped for a while. Taking antispasmodic will soon relieve your symptoms.
6. Hernia: often caused by intestinal incarceration, the baby is agitated and crying. Check if the baby can see a lump in the groin. No redness, swelling or burning sensation.
7. Go to the kidney: The baby sometimes rises to the groin due to the spasm of the cremaster muscle, causing pain and suddenly crying violently. The examination found that there was nothing in the baby's scrotum, and a lump the size of a broad bean was felt in the ipsilateral groin.
8. Intestinal parasites: Causes Rao worms crawl in the mouth at night, causing discomfort and crying.
9. Urinary tract infection: I often cry when I pee. Check the baby's urethral orifice and you can see redness or secretions.
I hope the baby in this article cries. Can help you.