When a child is born, if the birth time corresponds to "258 males and 369 females."

Then, the child's life will be good, on the contrary, the child's life may be ordinary.

Of course, this statement is just an old superstition and has no effective scientific basis. Now it can only be used as a psychological comfort.

However, the time of giving birth does have an impact on children. If a child is born in these four "auspicious times", it will be considered as a real "Fuwa". Blessed are both mother and son. Did your baby win?

? Both husband and wife are at a good childbearing age.

We often hear words like "older women" and "better reproductive period". In fact, this refers to the better age of parents when the child is born.

Most of us know that pregnant women over 35 years old are elderly women, which may lead to various adverse reactions and consequences:

It is easy to cause pregnancy-induced hypertension, preeclampsia and other diseases, which seriously damages the health of pregnant women. Poor physical function of elderly women may have a negative impact on delivery and postpartum recovery, increase the probability of dystocia, reduce the recovery effect, and even lead to postpartum anemia and infection. The pelvic cavity of elderly pregnant women is relatively fixed, which may lead to fetal distress during delivery and may affect the health and even life of the fetus. The rate of fetal malformation in elderly pregnant women is relatively high. After the child is born, the age gap with his parents is too big, which is not conducive to future education and training and the healthy growth of the child.

If you are born in school age, these problems are not easy to occur, which is very beneficial to both children and treasure mothers.

However, it should be noted that the better reproductive age of men and women is different, and the better reproductive age of men is 30-35 years old, which is one of the reasons for "one man and thirty flowers". The better childbearing age for women is between 23 and 30 years old. If you exceed this age, the quality of men will decline and the eggs of women will age.

? The family's economic foundation is relatively strong, which can guarantee the cost of childcare.

After a child is born, the most realistic problems are food, clothing, housing, transportation, education and training, all of which need a certain economic foundation to be realized.

Don't underestimate the economic investment that children need to grow up. We can take a brief look at it first:

In infancy, children's main expenses are daily food, clothing, housing and transportation and early education. The expenses are mainly milk powder and various complementary foods. According to conservative calculation, the daily monthly expenditure is about 2000 yuan. In other words, there are 60,000 to 70,000 expenses in three years of infancy.

If parents attach importance to early education and give their babies early education classes, the cost will be even greater. Generally, the fees for early education classes are more than 20,000 yuan. Therefore, in infancy, a child's expenditure may reach 60,000 ~ 65,438+10,000.

In preschool, children's main expenses are education, daily life and activities. Education is the expenditure of kindergartens and interest classes. Public fees are low, and the total expenditure of preschool classes is less than 20 thousand.

But private schools are more expensive, mostly at 1000 yuan/semester. In addition, the annual cost of interest classes is generally between 5,000 yuan and 20,000 yuan. As for activities and itineraries, the annual cost is also around 10,000 yuan.

Therefore, in the pre-school stage, children's expenses are between 50,000 and10.5 million.

In primary school, because the children are basically in public schools, the expenditure is mainly concentrated on education and counseling, plus the usual food, clothing, housing and transportation. The total expenditure in six years is between 600,000 and 300,000, and the individual family is not capped.

The expenditure during middle school is mainly living expenses, and the expenditure on education is not much. The expenditure for six years is about 60000 ~ 200000.

There is a big difference in the fluctuation of expenses during college, because the geographical location of the university where the child is located and whether the child participates in social activities will directly affect the expenses during college.

Generally speaking, it is kept between 80,000 and 1.6 million, except for individual hobbies, such as children who like photography and need to buy equipment.

Some children will continue to study after college, so it is difficult to calculate these expenses carefully. Depending on the level, children may need tens of thousands or tens of millions.

So generally speaking, when a child is born, the economic strength of the family can meet the growth needs of the child, which is a better birth time.

? When pregnant, both husband and wife are healthy and have good reproductive status.

Fetal development is closely related to the health of both men and women during pregnancy. So now there is a saying of "pregnancy preparation". Therefore, during pregnancy, we must pay attention to ensuring our health and giving up some bad habits.

(1) Pay attention to supplement your own nutrition. The more adequate nutrition, the healthier the development of the fetus.

Don't drink, smoke, stay up late or drink some drinks or food containing sexual ingredients during pregnancy.

③ Pay attention to weight control to avoid being too light or too heavy.

If both husband and wife are in good health and reproductive system when they are pregnant, then the fetus will be healthier and smarter.

? The family atmosphere is harmonious, the members live in harmony and the happiness index is high.

The last good chance is that when the child is born, the relationship between family members is harmonious and happy, and the child can be born in a happy family. This is the "real Fuwa".

You know, the disharmony between family members is bad for children's growth. For example, a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not only affect the relationship between parents, but also make children live in an unharmonious environment from an early age. More importantly, sometimes the fierce relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will directly lead to children's injuries.

For example, before a woman tried to jump off a building with her child, it was because of the bad relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which led to her mental disorder and almost made dangerous behavior.

If the family relationship is harmonious, it will be another scene. After the child is born, his parents will feel pain, his mother will hug him, and his in-laws will kiss him, so that the child will always live in an environment full of security and happiness, and his personality will be more positive.

Moreover, a good family order will also make children have a good example from an early age, and it is easier to establish a correct three views, stimulate children's excellent quality and enhance their personal ability.

Therefore, when giving birth to a child, we should choose these four opportunities to make the child grow up healthily and make the parents more gratified.

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The above is about whether the boy was born in Yin Shi or not, and it is about the sharing of childcare. After reading a man's life, I hope this will help everyone!