There are usually reasons why children don't want to go to kindergarten, mainly separation anxiety. Of course, they may not want to go because they met something that made them unhappy in kindergarten. For example, there are contradictions with children and emotions. Maybe I miss my mother and feel anxious about separation. It is normal to have separation anxiety before and after entering kindergarten. I heard that some babies were still crying when they arrived in the big class, and even I saw some primary school students still making trouble when they were facing separation at school.

As an experienced person, I have some experiences to share.

After the baby enters the park, it is inevitable that there will be various maladjustments in the face of new environment, new friends and new living habits.

Preparations before entering the park

1, familiar with the kindergarten environment

2. Tell your baby more about going to kindergarten. What's the difference between now and now?

3, let the baby feel that maternal love has always been there, and separation is only temporary.

4. Try to choose a kindergarten close to home.

5. Be sure to spend more time with your baby in the first three years to make your baby feel safe enough.

Parents should pay attention after entering the park.

1, pay attention to children's emotions

2. Let go of your anxiety, otherwise your anxiety will be passed on to your child and superimposed.

3. After sending the baby to kindergarten, you need to leave gently and firmly, telling the baby what will happen next, when to pick up TA and appear in front of TA.

4. After the baby shows that he doesn't want to go to kindergarten, he should be comforted in time, and at the same time, he should gently and firmly insist on sending the baby to kindergarten.

5. I believe that the teacher will take good care of the children. I believe that your baby has strong adaptability and slowly learn to let go.

In addition to patient teaching, reading picture books is also an easy and effective way for parents. This issue of "Bian Xiao" will recommend some picture books for you to help your baby ease the discomfort of entering the park.

1, "Tom goes to kindergarten"

Suitable reading age: 2-4 years old

Little Tom is going to kindergarten. Although, mom and dad say kindergarten teachers are amiable; Although, mother bought Tom a new schoolbag that he likes; Although, at the gate of the kindergarten, my mother said that she was sad and could look at her handkerchief. ...

Educational significance: going to kindergarten for the first time is really an unprecedented challenge for children. This book tells you what it's like for children to go to kindergarten. Why do some children pretend to be sick, cheat and hug their mothers at the kindergarten gate ... Let us give these children tolerance, encouragement and love? Come on, I'm sure they will like kindergarten as much as Tom.

2. Little Ali's big school

Suitable reading age: 3-5 years old

Little Ali is going to school! Little Ali is so excited, but a little worried. What if you get lost at school? What if I can't make new friends? What shall we do? He is also afraid that he will burst into tears. He really doesn't want to leave his mother and go to a strange environment. At this time, a little sparrow made little Ali change his mind ... just like a bird growing up to leave its nest and fly to the world, little Ali went to school, and he found that school was still a very interesting place!

Educational significance: only borrow the book reviews written by Professor Mei. We should prepare everything for our children like Ali's mother. However, from the children's point of view, do we think of them? This is really difficult. As long as we read "Little Ali's Big School" together, then we will enter the inner world of children. The real growth process of a child must not be in his arms. A bird must grow in flight. Little Ali met all the happy things in college. The teacher is close and the classmates are friendly, but the little sparrow is bullied by other birds and is afraid. Little Ali takes care of the sparrow and encourages it to fly. A child who is afraid to go out of his arms encourages another child to fly out of his arms, and the guided child becomes the guide of another child. This story is well designed! We should let children pay attention to this design in reading, fully see the power of Little Ali, and make Little Ali not only "small" but also "big".

3. David goes to school

Suitable reading age: 2-4 years old

Children who have seen picture books must be familiar with David. In David, no, little David has caused enough trouble at home. Now it's time for him to go to school, which has brought constant trouble to the school. This book mainly describes David's study of rules at school. The biggest difference from David, No is that in the previous book, David is self-centered and fooling around alone; In the latter book, there are other children around David. He must learn to get along with others and respect school rules.

Educational significance: This book is to share with every child the growing experience of going to school for the first time, and let them know how to learn what are "ok" and "good" behaviors and things with the help of teachers.

4. "Little monsters want to go to school"

Suitable reading age: 3-5 years old

The troll is an ogre's child, but he is different from his parents. He doesn't eat people. He envies that human children have so many ways to play and have fun. One day, he found a book and decided to go to school to "decipher" the secrets in the book. Everything has changed since the little monster went to school. When he learned to read and read the stories in the book, he attracted the father and mother of the ogre. Finally, not only can the troll eat delicious fruitcake every day, but his classmates and troll's parents have also become good friends!

Educational significance: In fact, every child has a little monster in his heart. At a certain stage, they are desperate for knowledge. If parents can guide, encourage and support them correctly, their world will become colorful and popular.

5. The Magic Kiss

A secret for children to go to school with peace of mind, a love to stay in the palm of their hands. ?

The author of this book is Audrey? Paine, when his four-year-old daughter was about to enter kindergarten, experienced great separation anxiety, and her daughter's mood also deeply affected her and made her feel distressed, so she had such a book describing separation anxiety. ?

6.a bag of kisses

The hero of the story is Debbie. It is said that Debbie is going to school. He came to a big forest primary school. On the first day of school, Debbie learned to line up and walk into the classroom. She learned to hang her coat on the hook with her own name ... It is very important that he knows that when the teacher calls his name, he must stand up and answer "Here" so that everyone can know him and Debbie can know other friends. But Debbie didn't want to go to school the next day. What should she do? What good idea did her mother have?

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