First, economic reasons. Personally speaking, the child is four years old now. When I was a child, I breastfed until I was two and a half years old. Only occasionally fed milk powder in the middle. Because children don't like to drink milk powder, the amount of milk powder they drink is not too much. After three years old, I drank pure milk for a while. Even so, I saved a lot of money. Then there is the cost of going to kindergarten. Roughly calculated, the annual cost of kindergarten is 20 thousand. Therefore, the situation of having a second child should be combined with the family economic situation. From the perspective of raising children, I think it is best to have two children separated by three to five years, which can also appropriately reduce the financial burden of families. Of course, like people with good economic conditions, they will also enroll their children in some early education classes or interest classes, which my family has not enrolled at present.

Second, the situation of physical recovery. If the first child is delivered by caesarean section, it will take two years to conceive a second child. Even so, after two years, you need to go to the hospital for examination and the recovery of the incision before you can decide whether to have a second child. Then if the first child is born naturally, it is best to have a second child every year. Although, relatively speaking, natural delivery is less harmful to the body and there is no wound in the uterus. Theoretically, you can get pregnant as long as you have your period, but Ma Bao should not worry. We need to give the body a recovery process. Moreover, the interval between the two babies is short, and they are also very tired in daily care and parenting.

Everyone's situation is different, so make a suitable choice according to your own specific situation.