1. Beating children will ruin their sense of security.
If you can't control your behavior pattern well now, such as when I am angry, I just want to express my strong anger-yelling at him or hitting him. When there is no way to change this, I suggest that you repair your relationship after hitting the child, before he makes you so angry and you are not so emotional.
You should calm down and say to the child, "Look, mom hit you again this morning. If you look back now, it seems that your problem is not that serious. Mom will feel that there are some things she shouldn't do now. I shouldn't have hit you directly. I should tell you something first. I'm really a little embarrassed to think about it now.
2. Set a bad example for children
Children are the epitome of parents' behavior, and we can completely see what parents are doing from children. If a child says "get out of here", then he is definitely not making it up out of thin air, and some parents should have said it. I don't think it is advisable to win the children's conviction by beating them, so as to establish their own authority. Who can be sure that your opponent will not attack people who are weaker than you?
Parents are always the best teachers for their children. Your behavior will also affect children invisibly, so try not to expose your rude side in front of children. It is more effective to show the best side in front of children and guide them how to do it with their own words and deeds than to beat them up.