There is a popular saying called "Don't let children lose at the starting line", so many parents are anxious to send their young children to various early education classes to learn reading, math, English and develop their intelligence.

But early education that is really helpful to children's life development should not be instilling all kinds of knowledge into children. So, what should children learn?

First, learn to know yourself.

Everyone is unique, but many of us become blurred when we are alive.

I don't know "who am I and what do I like?" Live as others expect. However, if a person wants to get real happiness, he must understand what he really wants. Therefore, children should know the difference between themselves and others from an early age and cultivate self-awareness and independence.

Second, understand the family and the surrounding collective environment.

Everyone needs a sense of belonging all his life. Nowadays, many teenagers are withdrawn, irritable and suicidal. The main reason is that children can't establish good contact with family, school and other collectives, and can't handle their own relationship with others.

Third, close contact with nature.

Man is a creature of nature, and is born with a close relationship with nature. The long evolution and development of human history has benefited from nature, but with the more developed economy and the higher degree of urbanization, many children have lost the opportunity to contact nature.

As human beings, we can't do without learning knowledge and getting energy from nature.

Let children fully contact with nature, enjoy the comfortable and relaxed feeling brought by nature, and cultivate the courage to contact new things and explore nature, which can give children rich vitality and creativity.

Let children not lose at the starting line, first of all, we must know what is really important to children, and don't put the cart before the horse.