2. Companionship method: If the community is relatively large, parents can contact the babies of other neighbors in the community and let them go to kindergarten together. All children have a gregarious effect. Seeing other children go will arouse the baby's interest
3, beautiful vision method: We can also tell the baby that there are many early education toys in the kindergarten, many children play games with the baby, and they can learn interesting knowledge, and the aunt in the kindergarten is very beautiful and amiable ~ ~ In short, children must be encouraged to go to school.
4. Firm attitude: Most children will show reluctance to go to the nursery for the first time. This is a process. At this time, parents should be firm and must send him. The most important thing is to insist and encourage children to have more contact with children and cooperate with teachers to praise his performance in nursery schools. After a while, he will be willing to leave. Kindergarten children's early education is definitely much more systematic and standardized than our family early education. We must not let the baby stay at home because the child doesn't want to, so it will not be worth the candle.
Children don't want to go to kindergarten. Parents should pay attention.
1, don't be too tough, so as not to cause children's rebellious psychology, and give priority to guidance.
2, this is a long-term job, don't rush for a while, and when the baby enters the kindergarten and has more friends, it will gradually get better.
What if a child is bullied in kindergarten and doesn't want to go to kindergarten? She suddenly hates going to kindergarten. How can there be such a big change? Has anything important happened at home recently? For example, move, divorce or you add a new member (a new child is born). Obviously, your child is in a bad mood, so she behaves in the only way she knows. If everything seems normal, try to send your child to early childhood week every morning, spend more time with her, and relieve her separation anxiety. You can ask your child to take a photo with you and tell her that you will pick her up soon. Audrey Pan, an American children's literature writer, tells the story of a little raccoon in her work Little Hands Kissed by Mother: The little raccoon didn't want to leave her mother in kindergarten, so her mother kissed her little hand every time she left. In this way, when the mother is not around, the little raccoon sticks the little palm kissed by her mother to her face and feels her kiss.
For children who don't want to go to kindergarten, does the family always mention kindergarten? This is wrong, just like something you don't want to see. How do you feel when it always appears in front of your eyes? This will only increase the burden on the child's heart. Don't talk about kindergarten in children's lives.
It is necessary to create conditions at home to adapt children to the reasons for hating kindergartens. For example, "when you arrive at kindergarten, you must do what you can, and children should ask him at home." There is absolutely no room for negotiation, let alone bargaining with your children; Kindergarten is not allowed to change the diet structure for a child. But at home, you may do whatever your child likes; In kindergarten, children have to complete some learning tasks and ask him the same thing when they get home. He will gradually adapt to kindergarten life, so he won't hate going to kindergarten.
Why don't children want to go to kindergarten? number
Arouse his interest
But I'm starting to feel a little homesick
That's inevitable
What if the newborn child doesn't want to go to kindergarten? This situation is very common at present.
The child has been crying,
As a result, parents went to see their children again and again.
Causes the child to cry for longer.
Parents are willing to let go,
Generally, a child will basically get used to it in a week or half.
What's the matter with the child crying and not wanting to go to kindergarten? Some adults are distressed to hear their children crying after sending them to kindergarten. They clung to the child. Some turn around crying step by step. Some look through the door, and the child cries and goes in to pick it up. It is difficult to send children to kindergarten. When sending them to kindergarten, parents should control their emotions and guide them with a calm mind. Otherwise, it will lead to greater emotional fluctuations in children. Parents should not play missing in kindergarten. Don't suddenly disappear when you leave your child. Say goodbye to your children generously and confidently. Let the child know that his parents have left and pick him up immediately after work. Otherwise, when the child is sent to kindergarten next time, when he cries, he will hold his parents' hands and distract him. Don't fish for three days and dry the net for two days, because their children are crying. Otherwise, the child will know that he can not go to kindergarten when he cries. When he is crying, parents should find something he is interested in to distract his early training, so as to prevent the child from leaving his parents to be "anxious" in a strange environment. After the initial novelty has passed, it is easy to have "anxiety about entering the park", which mainly includes: emotional instability, frequent crying, headache, stomachache, frequent urination and so on. Therefore, before entering the park, parents should eat, go to the toilet and get dressed. It can help children adapt to kindergarten life faster, enhance their self-confidence and pay attention to communication, help them find a sense of belonging, communicate with the class teacher in advance when they are familiar with the kindergarten environment, and let the teacher have a preliminary understanding of the children first.
What if the child doesn't want to go to kindergarten and the tuition fee is not refunded? Can I call the police? Of course not. It's an economic dispute, and the police station can't handle it. You can consult the Wind Department of Education Bureau.
How to deal with children's reluctance to go to kindergarten 2. Understand the reasons why children don't want to go to kindergarten, find strategies and prescribe the right medicine. Generally speaking, children don't want to go to kindergarten for a reason. Some children will not associate with their peers and feel lonely without playmates; Some are introverted and can't get the attention of teachers. They think the teacher doesn't like him, and some children are bullied by children occasionally. There are also some separation anxiety caused by inadaptability when entering the park. Parents should find out why their children don't want to go to kindergarten and prescribe the right medicine.