In fact, I only saw the smart side of steamed bread, but I didn't see the teacher and sister pay silently behind it. She spends much more time on her children's study than I do. For example, I bought a children's picture book for my children. Most of the time, I let the children read the picture books by themselves. Occasionally, I will tell her about the contents of the picture books, but the teacher and sister accompany the children from beginning to end and teach her to read and spell word by word. Xiao Shantou also signed up for an early education class. Every time she comes back from an early education class, the elder sister takes time to help her review what she has learned.
Children are still young, and playing and sleeping are still the main tasks of TA. Children can't be asked to spend too much time on their studies, so they need a timetable to tell them what to do every day. The teacher elder sister specially made a timetable for the small steamed bread, and I arranged it according to her description for your reference:
From Monday to Friday
7 o'clock-get up
7:30- Breakfast
9:30- Play puzzle games such as building blocks and puzzles (accompanied by parents)
12:30- lunch
13:30- 15:00- nap
Tip: If children don't have the habit of taking a nap, make sure they have enough sleep time at night. 1 1~ 12 hours is appropriate. It is best not to take a nap for more than 2 hours or 15: 00.
15:30- Have a snack, watch TV or have free activities.
17:45- dinner
19:30- Review what you learned yesterday, and then learn new content (accompanied by parents)
20:00- Sleeping ceremony (telling stories and the like)
20:30- Go to bed
Weekend 15: 30 "snacks, watching TV or having free activities" will become outdoor activities and early education classes. Outdoor activities are going to the park with mom and dad, going for a walk in the supermarket, playing outdoor parent-child games or going further, so that children can see more about the outside world. Have an early education class for an hour. Take it apart, you spend half an hour playing with your friends, and the other half an hour learning physical coordination, hands-on ability, cognitive ability, music, drawing, mathematics or simple knowledge from your teacher. Senior sister is a middle school teacher and has plenty of time. When she is away during the day, grandparents will supervise the children's activities and work and rest. But at night, no matter how tired, my sister will accompany her children to study in person.
I would like to remind you that in fact, two or three-year-old children have limited ability to learn and absorb, and they only need to learn some simple content every day. Besides English, they can also learn pinyin, simple geographical knowledge, draw pictures, and know all kinds of fruits and animals. These learning contents can be learned by children's picture books. It doesn't matter if the child can't learn at once. Review yesterday's content every day, or help your child deepen his impression with personal practice. For example, when learning the word "apple", mothers can buy some apples for their children to observe, so that long-term accumulation will have unexpected effects. It is also suggested that if conditions permit, parents can arrange their children's study time during the day, because their mental state is better, their memory is stronger and their efficiency is higher during the day.
Playing is a child's nature. Parents make timetables for their children to know when to play, when to study and when to rest. They can not only have fun, but also be full of energy every day and concentrate on their studies. Many children are procrastinating when they grow up, with poor self-control ability and easy to forget time. That's because they have no good habits. Timetable can help children develop good habits, establish a correct concept of time and enhance their self-control ability. Of course, every child's situation and family situation are different. You can make a timetable for your child according to the actual situation. If you have the conditions, you can also learn about early education classes. Although your cultural knowledge is limited, the educational methods of professional institutions are more scientific and systematic.
According to the teacher elder sister, in fact, the little steamed bread was unwilling to be carried out at first. After all, when I was a child, I was spoiled. You can try the following methods:
1, let the children participate. When making a timetable, you can invite children to participate and improve their sense of participation. Let children personally participate in the formulation, reduce children's resistance, enhance children's sense of identity, and make it easier to implement. If the child refuses to implement it, parents can slowly guide the revision of the timetable, extend the child's play time, and then appropriately increase the study time after the child gets used to it. Parents should not ask for one step, which will enhance their children's resistance. Even if children do what their parents ask, their attention is not concentrated and their efficiency is not high.
2. Increase the reward and punishment policy. In fact, children, like adults, will be more involved if they can get something in return. We can formulate certain reward and punishment policies. Rewards can be appropriate relaxation or small gifts, depending on the needs of children. For example, if you learn a pinyin mom today, you will get a chocolate. Punishment is also essential, such as children who are uncomfortable and unwilling to study being punished for not eating snacks and so on. It can be used flexibly and the punishment should not be too heavy, because our purpose is to improve children's interest in learning and avoid psychological pressure.
3. Parents should supervise more. Going back to what I said just now, accompanying children is actually supervising children. It is irresponsible to leave the task to the children. Many times, it is not that children are lazy and unwilling to learn, but that children are too young, and their execution and concentration are not strong. Even their favorite games may go somewhere else in the middle of playing. Parents around can not only guide children, but also make children feel that learning can bring happiness to their parents. TA will bring happiness to parents by studying hard. Therefore, parents should show appreciation and happiness for every progress made by their children, and let them feel that their efforts are worthwhile, which will make them more serious.
4. Consciousness level. Let the children follow the timetable and let them have a better future. We should always tell them the reasons and reasons for doing so. Even if the child still doesn't understand, it can deepen the memory of TA. When children grow up, they will understand their parents' good intentions and develop good habits that will benefit them for life!
Summary: As everyone says, there are no stupid children, only parents who don't work hard! After listening to the teacher elder sister's words, I gained a lot and shared it with you. If children want to be smarter, parents should pay more! It is also because of the efforts of parents that children will become smarter and smarter!
Some previous questions:
[1] Some exercises help children grow taller, while others prevent them from growing taller? Parents need to know
[2] It is never poverty that destroys children, but these nine families. Parents should pay attention.
[3] 2: What other secrets does the baby think she knows, but she doesn't know?