Two days ago, Grandma Rui Rui took her children to play in the community. I asked curiously, "Hey, Rui Rui won't go to kindergarten. Didn't she go today? " "Oh, forget it, I was ill a few days ago and refused to go back to kindergarten. At the gate of the kindergarten, I held my hand and refused to let go. My heart was broken when I looked at it and cried. On second thought, forget it. I can handle him anyway. When will he be here? Go back if you want. " I think grandma Rui Rui is very open-minded, so parents should relax and not worry too much. Children like to live in groups. Seeking companionship is the instinct of many creatures, especially people, who are born gregarious animals. . One day when I am bored at home and can't find my peers in the community, I will naturally go back to kindergarten.
2. Good communication with teachers
Children don't want to go to kindergarten. In many cases, he was criticized by teachers or bullied by children. My Dabao used to have a classmate who quarreled with other children. Later, her mother was angry because her daughter was bullied. The relationship with the teacher is tense. Later, the child refused to go to kindergarten without saying anything. In junior high school, he transferred to another kindergarten. In fact, small disputes between three-year-olds are normal. There are strong children and gentle children. Parents are too nervous, which affects the normal communication between children and people.
3. Let children integrate into partners and groups.
If children play truant because it is difficult to get along with their classmates, parents should let their children have more contact with children of the same age, which will help cultivate their social skills; Encourage children to go out to play with friends, and welcome friends who bring their children home.
4. Encourage more and criticize less.
For children who play truant, parents should try their best to discover their progress when educating their children. Even if the children have only made a little insignificant achievements, praise and encourage them to feel that you care about them.
Conclusion: When children don't want to go to kindergarten, smart parents should give their children time, give them proper encouragement and actively interact with teachers.