Work and rest on time, pay attention to hygiene, and bad hygiene habits directly affect children's health. Wash your hands often and brush your teeth in the morning and evening. At the same time, we should pay attention to public health education for children, so that children can develop the habit of not littering casually.
Parents should try to keep their children's daily life consistent. After a long time, children themselves can learn to work out a suitable schedule independently according to the consistent rules of life. Once children get used to the regular life, the concept of time has been internalized into their own precious quality, and the control and willpower of self-awareness have been greatly developed.
Second, do your own thing.
Parents should not do what they can for their children, but should consciously exercise their habit of doing their own things from an early age. Some small clothes are washed by children themselves. The purpose of letting children do housework is not only to do tedious work well, or to teach children how to do it. The importance of a clean kitchen is not as important as cultivating children's sense of responsibility, self-reliance, self-esteem, self-confidence and ability to do things, because these are the foundations of a healthy personality. Doing housework can also help children understand that people must cooperate and work towards the same goal. When children develop the habit of doing things by themselves and doing some housework on their own initiative, their sense of independence and self-responsibility will be enhanced a lot.
Third, learn to be frugal.
Children spend a lot of money, such as sports meeting, spring outing 10, and 20 yuan is not enough. The reason why this happens is that parents do not pay attention to the cultivation of their children's frugality habits, and some parents even think that it is shabby to let their children be frugal. In fact, think about a child who didn't know how to be frugal when he was a child. How can he be frugal when he grows up? To cultivate children's frugal habits, we must first give them pocket money and let them control the money themselves. If they spend it in advance, they will learn to control and manage their finances. Parents guide their children not to compare with others. Of course, parents cannot compete first. You can try to let your child use the holiday to taste the hardships of making money, so that he won't spend money indiscriminately.
Fourth, the Internet should be moderate.
Parents should lead by example, watch more TV, surf the Internet more, watch less TV, read more books, and use actions to generate persuasion, so that the correction effect will be better.
Playing games is a child's nature, but we should positively guide children to play those educational and healthy games and avoid children playing those games full of violence and pornography. At the same time, we should also cultivate children's hobbies so that children will not only focus on playing games. Before children play games, they should make rules for playing games with children. Parents should not allow their children to surf the Internet or work overtime just because their children behave well for a while. This will make online games rewarding, and their interest in games will be more stimulated. Parents of children with poor self-control should be more patient and slowly guide their children to learn to control themselves in playing games. It is best not to form a relationship between control and being controlled with children, so that children can develop good self-control habits.
Be polite to others.
In real life, we can often see or hear that some children don't know how to greet guests, and even some children swear, and parents often downplay my past as a truly ignorant child. You know, being polite is a sign of one's upbringing. In a person without education, courage will become rude, knowledge will become pedantic, wit will become cunning, simplicity will become rude, generosity will become flattering. Parents should not think that their children will be sensible when they are older, because if they form a habit, they will not think it is a mistake, let alone correct it. Let children dress neatly and form the habit of caring for clothes.
Teach children to knock on the door before going to other people's homes, and don't tamper with other people's property; When receiving guests at home, learn to sit down, invite tea and bid farewell without affecting the conversation between adults; When going to public places, we should take care of environmental sanitation and consciously abide by public order; Respect the elderly, teachers, etc.
Sixth, develop good reading habits.
Reading should start with what children are interested in, which can be some stories with pictures or TV plays that children like. Wait until the children like reading, and then read some big books. Parents can also accompany their children to study, and after a stage, they must let them read by themselves.
Let me share my baby's literacy experience with you. My baby started reading with him at the age of 3, but my children don't like books that don't move much. Later, I began to look for animation education materials, and used many early education applications before and after. Advertisements are frequent. If you don't know your child's learning effect, you will start charging until you find out. Cats are small; Very handsome. Study and Chinese. The application of Chinese characters, Chinese characters, Chinese characters, Chinese characters and Chinese characters can accumulate literacy, develop good reading habits and quickly adapt to the convergence of young people.
When a child dawdles on his homework, don't rush him to write, but let him write down his own time, and then analyze with him how much time it takes to do these homework, how much things can be done with these extra time, and how much happiness he will feel if he writes quickly with less! In this way, the child will understand that his procrastination will make him lose the opportunity to do what he is interested in, and the loss will outweigh the gain. He will consciously improve his efficiency and realize his learning goals over time.