I believe that most ordinary people work hard for material life at first. Seeking identity is a higher spiritual need. Nowadays, the material life of society is getting richer and richer, and most people are ordinary families. I'm afraid it's difficult to pay for all kinds of expenses of the family with a fixed salary or a person's income. In this case, we must work harder and think of various reasonable ways to make money and give our families a better material life.

We want to buy high-quality clothes and shoes for children in shopping malls, buy imported high-end nutrition, send them to early education and various interest classes, and take them to travel at home and abroad to increase their knowledge. I want to buy something for my parents that they have never seen or eaten when they were children, and I want to take them to the places they want to go. This is why I am working so hard now.

When I was a child, my family was in poor condition, and I lacked clothes and food. What I want most is to put on new clothes and eat a lot of meat every day. This influence continued until I worked. After I earn more and more money, I can buy what I want at will, and this influence slowly begins to fade. The whole person is not so sensitive and afraid. These are the results of hard work.

Life is like this. It's nothing more than rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Like ordinary people, we don't have a prominent family background and rich money. Only by working hard can we get more opportunities and give our families a better life. Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory also says that people must meet their physical and material needs before they can pursue higher-level emotional, belonging and self-realization needs. Only by ensuring the basic survival and material needs can we have more spirit and energy to seek recognition.

At present, the social atmosphere of comparison is still very serious. In kindergarten, children will travel with their parents and eat delicious food. Middle-aged people will compare what car they bought and how big the house they bought; Old people will show off with their neighbors what kind of clothes and jewelry their children have bought for themselves. If we don't work hard, we can't meet these material needs and won't be recognized by others. In fact, we can seek recognition while satisfying material life. After all, social money is also an important criterion to measure a person.

This is the way society is now. If you have money, your neighbors and friends will agree with you and think you are capable, otherwise you won't make money. This statement does not mean that we should become slaves of money, but that we should earn more money through our own efforts, bring a good material living environment to our families and gain recognition from the people around us.