Children have their own ideas since they were 2 years old, which is what people often say. At this stage, they like to do things that go against their parents. The more they don't want to do, the more they insist on doing it. No matter what parents say is right or wrong, they will resist and be happy.

At this time, the best way for parents is to give their children a certain choice. Don't always ask for something in your hand or instruct your child to do it, which will make your child more resistant. For example, if you want to take your child to play, you can also ask your child, "Mom/Dad will play with you today. Are you going to the zoo or Sea World? " Let the children choose where to play, and they will not be easily refuted.

The second kind of "exclusive desire" is more powerful.

By the age of 2, rebellious children will continue to have a strong "exclusive desire", unwilling to share their own things with people around them, such as toys and food, and even parents can be included in their own "industry", and others are not worthy, let alone playing, or parents are holding other children.

At this time, parents must not think that this is the performance of the child's "selfishness", and do not yell at it loudly, otherwise it will make the child more resistant. Parents can wait until this period has passed, then slowly and correctly guide and motivate their children to communicate and tell them that more and more people will love them, and then they will be easily recognized.

The third kind of sudden "forced thinking"

Speaking of these "forced thinking", I am deeply touched. And I have come into contact with many children, and each of them is persecuted in different ways, but in general, we must follow their ideas, or we will cry. For example, when going out, you must be "yourself first, mom second, dad last" and play with toys. No one can mess this up.

I believe many parents feel innocent at this time of their children. Because it was obvious that he had done nothing, the child suddenly began to cry. Actually, it's not like this. This adolescent rebellion is the first form of "communication" between children and the world after birth. They are always looking for the beauty of the world, so parents must do a good job of helping their children, so that they can easily have a correct sense of treating people.