After giving birth to a baby, every family seems to be engaged in a tug-of-war. From eating and drinking Lazar to going to school, most parents don't want their baby to lose at the starting line, and strive to be ahead in everything, eager to lay a solid foundation for their future life. I am no exception! However, I find that more and more children are educated in advance from an early age. For example, when they are 2 or 3 years old, they will be sent to kindergartens or nurseries, and they will try their best to explore their interests. Additional interest classes and early education classes must also be arranged.
I want to say that although it is good for parents to attach importance to their baby's education, sometimes it is counterproductive to rush. After all, the physical thinking development of young babies is not enough for them to cope with these so-called advanced education, and there will even be many adverse effects.
Will affect personal character development.
I believe that the companionship of parents is the best education for young babies. If you leave your parents too early and send them to kindergarten, they will feel lonely. In the long run, they will easily have some negative psychological problems. There are many children in kindergarten, but the baby's thinking habits and behavior habits are not mature. How do you let him get along with other children? You may hit a wall everywhere, or you may be bullied by older children. In the long run, it will definitely affect their physical and mental development!
At the same time, because babies can't express themselves well, their food, clothing, housing and transportation will be affected, and they will feel frustrated in the process of communicating with teachers, which will easily lead to inferiority complex.
Easy to get sick
Xiaohua is seriously ill from birth to admission. I believe many mothers have the same experience as me. Children are still young, and minor illnesses and pains are indispensable. And there are many small and medium-sized friends in the kindergarten. As long as one baby is sick, other children are easily infected. It hurts to be sick repeatedly.
When it comes to postponing kindergarten, the sons of Huo Siyan and Du Jiang, uh-huh, are a typical example. At first, many netizens questioned him because he didn't go to kindergarten at the age of 3, but Huo Siyan generously admitted in Weibo that he wanted to let Uh-huh enter school later, so that he could stay at home longer and see more of the world. I think I did the right thing ~
After reading so many examples of parenting, we all know that before the age of 4, babies need their parents' company very much, which is also the best time to establish parent-child relationship. In addition to a sense of security, they can also learn some basic life skills such as how to express themselves and how to eat and dress through their parents' education, which is of great significance and has many benefits for entering the park in the future ~
Better self-care ability
There are many small and medium-sized friends and few teachers in kindergartens. Sometimes the care is not in place, and there are always omissions, which will inevitably make the babies encounter difficulties. If the baby is late for kindergarten, parents will have enough time to teach the baby how to eat, how to sleep by himself, how to dress and go to the toilet, etc., and they can also ask the teacher for help according to their own needs. On this basis, babies can better adapt to the kindergarten environment, help them to enhance their self-confidence, and go to school will become much easier ~
Better learning ability
When you get along with your baby every day, you will know that your baby is really the same every day. Maybe today you will say two new words more than yesterday, and tomorrow you will take one more step than today. Although the age before and after kindergarten is similar, their understanding ability, expression ability and hands-on ability will be very different. It is conceivable that the study and life of older babies in kindergarten will be smoother.
Have stronger communication skills.
The kindergarten entrance time is September every year, but for some babies born at the end of the year, they may have to stay at home for another year. Mother Xiaohua thinks this is a good thing. A baby who goes to kindergarten one year later will be more handy than other children in both study and life. With the teacher's praise, the baby will become more and more confident. With such self-confidence, it will become very easy to get along with other babies, and social skills will naturally be greatly exercised and improved.