Fortunately, my best friend married a good husband, and my mother-in-law got along well, and everything went smoothly. However, when my best friend resigned, my family's face changed.
My best friend graduated from 985 College and was sent to our graduate school to continue his doctoral studies. After she came out, she found a job with very good benefits. Mother-in-law and father-in-law are smiling when chatting with neighbors in the community, and people in the community are particularly envious.
However, the good times did not last long. When my daughter was 2 years old, my best friend decided to quit her job and go home to take care of her baby full-time despite the opposition of four old people and her husband. After resigning, her in-laws have never given her a good look; My best friend's parents also accused her of being stupid. I'm sorry she studied hard for so many years. Neighbors in the neighborhood even laughed at her.
However, my best friend doesn't care about other people's opinions, and she doesn't regret quitting her job to take care of the baby full-time. Instead, she was happy to be with her daughter when she needed her mother most.
The daughter who has gone to school now has long been regarded as "someone else's child" in the eyes of neighbors, and her Excellence is enviable, especially when those who accused and laughed at her before saw her daughter's resume at the beginning of Xiaoshengchu.
Since the best friend's daughter went to school, the teacher found that the children were far ahead of other children in learning interest, practical ability and self-care ability, especially the children's concentration was super strong. Other children either like to be distracted or concentrate on listening for two or three minutes. Only her son listens carefully and can concentrate on one thing for a long time.
In addition, children are active in thinking logic, clear in language expression, and particularly strong in self-care and induction. When my best friend's mother-in-law went to pick up the child, the teacher told her mother-in-law several times that the child had the potential to learn hegemony, and with this kind of determination, she would definitely not be bad at school in the future. At the beginning, my in-laws who were critical of my girlfriend not only kept their mouths shut, but also boasted to everyone: "My daughter-in-law is really high flyers. You see, she will educate her children more! "
Surprises keep coming. At the moment I saw my daughter's resume, my family even admired my best friend's foresight, and my neighbors shut up and felt ashamed.
Faced with the successful example of girlfriends educating their daughters, many people came to her for advice. Girlfriend said that concentration will definitely become the core competitiveness of this era, and children with high concentration will become the best in all industries. This ability needs a threshold and time to bless, so it is necessary to exercise your child's ability in this area as soon as possible. And it is best to try to exercise concentration from the age of 2, because this is the golden age.
My best friend resigned when her daughter was 2 years old and came back for special exercise, because if she missed this golden period, she might delay her child's development and it would be difficult to make up for it in the future. The effect is also very remarkable. Children learn things faster than other children after entering kindergarten, and teachers also praise them. Slowly, my daughter became more and more confident.
Asked about the specific method, my girlfriend said that this method is actually very simple. You can start with "playing" and take your child to play the game she is interested in. For example: painting and coloring, building blocks, playing with stickers, etc. The girlfriends all recommend everyone to play sticker games with their children, which greatly improves their attention. Why do you say that? My best friend gave three opinions.
1 and 2~8 years old, the most important thing is to cultivate children's interest in learning.
My best friend said that interest is the best motivation for children to learn. For two or three-year-old children, sticker books are their interest. Only when children are interested can they explore and concentrate on that matter.
Playing sticker books is also about methods, that is, don't bother all the time. Children like sticker books, we just need to provide them to him and leave the fun to the baby himself. In the process of playing, the higher the degree of freedom, the higher the interest.
On the contrary, blindly letting children follow our ideas will hinder their development and destroy their interest and talent in learning.
2. The challenge should match the child's skills.
Children of every age have corresponding skills and learning ability. We can teach children to learn things, but not beyond their endurance. Early education classes can really teach children a lot of things, but on the one hand, the price is too expensive; On the other hand, each child's tolerance is different. Once a child's endurance is poor, he will lose interest in learning because of difficult challenges.
The sticker is different. It is suitable for children of this age, and it can also cultivate children's concentration, hands-on ability, analytical ability and so on.
3. The sticker book itself can exercise children's concentration.
The best friend said that children are natural "divergent thinking" masters, and it is difficult for us to let children enter a state of concentration from the initial divergent thinking. Sticker books can cultivate long-term "concentration" with the help of children's own "divergent thinking"
Sticker books are colorful and interesting, covering a wide range of contents. In the process of playing with stickers, children's attention may shift from plant stickers to animal stickers, or to stickers of other items, but they will always be immersed in how to use their brains to make the stickers in their hands meet the requirements of the book, so as to achieve long-term concentration. No matter how the child jumps and diverges, it will be collected by one of the themes, and with his own exploration, he will gradually guide his ability to concentrate.
After listening to the experience sharing of the doctor's best friend, everyone expressed their understanding, but there was still a doubt in their hearts. "There are only a few thousand early education classes. You bought dozens of sticker books. Isn't it more expensive than the early education class? "
My best friend showed you the set of stickers for children's concentration training, and said with a smile that children aged 2-8 really need stickers, but they can start playing with this set of books. This set of books has 18 stickers, including 3 100 stickers, and a set of books is enough for children to play for a long time.
Moreover, this set of sticker books includes life, language, reasoning, mathematical ability, IQ, judgment, potential, behavior, observation, reaction, creativity, imagination, emotional intelligence, logical ability, understanding and many other aspects. While cultivating children's concentration, it can also cultivate children's thinking ability, analytical ability, practical ability and creative ability, so that children can develop in an all-round way.
This set of books is really targeted. A *** 18 volume, each focusing on cultivating a kind of ability. For example: memory, spatial imagination, reasoning judgment, creativity and so on. More than 300 different scenes and more than 365,438+000 beautiful stickers, including maze, room layout, item classification, digital games, etc. Let children deepen their daily knowledge reserves during play.
Concentration is really important for children. I hope that if there are parents of children aged 2-8 at home, parents who want to cultivate and improve their concentration, and parents who don't know how to educate their children, you can try this set of sticker books. I'm looking for a girlfriend to put the link below, and it's guaranteed to be genuine and the price is beautiful ~