The hero of the story is a mother. She said, "The thing I regret most in my life is to bring up my son so well"! She said that her wife was ill, with terminal liver cancer. It feels like the sky is falling! I called my son trembling and asked him if he wanted to go back to China to take his father to an expert. My son was silent for a few seconds. He said he was busy. It is not easy to take time out of the toilet to make a phone call. He asked me to take my wife to Beijing for a follow-up visit. Ask the nurse when you are too busy. Don't save money. Then hang up. After hanging up the phone, it suddenly occurred to me that I would never book a high-speed rail ticket at all. No one answered the phone again. I was anxious about my wife's illness, so I rushed to my nephew's house in the west of the city and asked him how to buy a high-speed rail ticket. Nephew, I'm sweating with worry. He told me that next time I want to buy a high-speed rail ticket, I don't have to come all the way. Give me a call and tell me I'll buy it for you directly. As he spoke, he quickly turned on his mobile phone and asked, What are you doing in Beijing? I dare not tell him that my wife is ill, and my son asked me to take him to the doctor myself. I told him vaguely that my wife was not feeling well. I want to take him to a big city for inspection and visit Beijing by the way. Hearing this, the nephew immediately said, "Aunt, why didn't you say so earlier? What happened to my uncle? " . After that, I returned the high-speed rail ticket. Said I was free these two days. Let me drive you to Beijing! I stopped at once and felt embarrassed. Nephew, don't argue with me, aunt. That's settled. My uncle is not feeling well. You old couple are going to Beijing. If anything happens, my mother will skin me. You're welcome. Let me know if you have anything to do in the family group in the future. If you need us, you must not refuse. My nephew will take me home at night. I hid in the toilet and cried, for fear that my wife would cover her mouth and cry, and tears rolled over my face. When I got home, my wife asked my son what he said. I told my wife about my son's arrangement, and he sighed and didn't make any noise. I know in my heart that he must regret raising his son so well, just like me. My son is someone else's child since he was a child, and learning never worries people. Learning in the class has always been among the best. My wife and I are both teachers. We know the importance of education and are willing to spend money to train our sons. My son didn't let us down and was admitted to a famous university in China with excellent results. After graduating from college, I went abroad for study and employment, and my salary was surprisingly high.
Those years were the best time for the old couple. My parents often compare my sister's two sons and say that they just can't help the mud on the wall. My son took root in Germany after graduation. We sold the house in the city and all our savings and helped our son buy a house in Germany. We old couple are going back to live in the village. The villagers joked that "we are going to Germany to support the elderly"! We always pretend to smile with reserve, in fact, we are also looking forward to this day in our hearts. We began to urge marriage every day. It was not until his daughter-in-law was pregnant that he told us that they actually got married two years ago. We are surprised! But I can't take care of his acting first. I packed my things and wanted to take care of my wife. I'm just worried that if I don't handle it now, I'm afraid she'll hold a grudge. Now I said that my mother-in-law didn't take care of her when she was pregnant, and she won't give her old age in the future. But my son refused in one bite, and my wife and I didn't go to Germany until my granddaughter was born. But after only half a month, my wife left first. He said he was not used to it there and was very uncomfortable. I didn't know until I stayed to take care of the children that my son's salary looked high in China, but it was barely enough here. The cost of living is very high, and he is also very polite to me, so polite that he is indifferent. I went into my son's room to clean, and my daughter-in-law said to respect his privacy. My granddaughter was only two months old when my daughter-in-law weaned her. I advised her to feed her for another two months, and she said unhappily, "No one has the right to interfere with her." Although my daughter-in-law is from China, I have heard that they quarreled in English several times, apparently for fear of being heard by me. These two young people are free to keep their mouths shut on human rights issues.
Walking on thin ice every day, for fear of accidentally stepping on thunder again. When my granddaughter was two years old, she was sent to a kindergarten similar to early education, and I was politely invited to come back to the pot. Ten years have passed, and my son always comes back twice, and every time he comes back, he is in a hurry like traveling. Daughter-in-law and granddaughter never came back once. At that time, I thought it was a good thing that my son was promising. I can't stay with us. Cut off his wings and stop him from flying! But now that my wife is ill, I really panic. If anything happens to him, how can I live alone? My nephew accompanied my old couple to Beijing to book a hotel, make an appointment to register and pay for medicine. I am really glad that he is busy alone. Just seeing the crowded people at the hospital gate gives me a headache, not to mention registering online to get medicine. The development of science and technology is indeed a good thing, but it is really unfriendly to the elderly in their 70 s!
Going around, my wife's test results finally came out, and the diagnosis was advanced liver cancer. I hid from my wife and began to cry again. I called my son and asked him to come back. I came back for three days and left again, saying that I was too busy at work. Leave a phone number to give the doctor the best medicine when you leave, and don't worry about the money. I tried to bite my lower lip to hold back the complaint stuck in my throat. Qian Qian currency ... understands money. Can money get your father back? My wife is skinny because of radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and her body is getting worse every day. The doctor said he could eat whatever he wanted to satisfy him. Treatment is meaningless. My wife took my hand and he was speechless at that time. But he managed to gasp and squeeze out a few words intermittently. I put my ear to it and heard him say that I was worried about what to do in the future. I cried my eyes out. When I was young, I dedicated myself to my son. I didn't find out until I was old that my wife was the one who could really accompany me to the end. My son is very promising, too far away to care for us.
I took my wife back to my hometown hospital, and I explained the situation to my son. My son finally came back from Germany under my many entreaties. My wife shed tears when she saw her son. My mouth trembled with excitement. But my son, who has been back for two days, is restless. One phone call after another, the third day early in the morning prevaricated, saying that there was a problem at work. I said angrily, "You have been looking forward to your father leaving early these two days, otherwise you will regret coming back this time." Is it more important to earn money or your father's life? ".My son is also very embarrassed to say" I am helpless "! I cried. I never regret lifting my son so high and so far that he is no longer the dependence of his parents. I was afraid to leave the hospital after my son left. Although there are nurses, I am afraid that a lost wife will be gone. My nephew, afraid of my reputation, voluntarily gave up his youngest son at home and took turns to keep vigil for his wife. I know that they are all self-employed, opening a shop for one day and earning money for one day. I don't know how to express my gratitude to them. I can only give them money. But both nephews said it was what they should do. At that time, I believed what my parents said about two nephews who couldn't help the mud on the wall. Now I'd rather hope that my son can't help the mud on the wall, at least he can accompany his parents through the last journey!
A few days later, his wife left, and he didn't come back until the last minute at 3 am. Eyes staring at the door, eyes full of expectation, I know he is looking forward to the appearance of his son, but he is doomed to be disappointed. At the moment of his wife's death, maybe he was prepared in his heart, but there was still too much sadness in his heart. My son came back from the funeral. The daughter-in-law and granddaughter still didn't come back, and it was chilly. I handled the funeral with the help of two nephews. After burying my wife, my son and my sister shook hands and thanked them for taking care of my parents all the time, but they didn't say a word about how to settle me down. That night, when the family was having dinner, he said awkwardly, He looks beautiful abroad. In fact, it is not easy to provide a house and support a family. He changed the subject and said that his mother would let two cousins take care of him in the future. I was stunned by his words. Lightly sentence, shift the responsibility of the mother's pension to others.
After my son left, I went to see my wife and sat at the tombstone to talk about it. I envy him very much. I walked in front of the door, and I could still serve him in the last paragraph. Sometimes it's not terrible to die, but the people who survive are the most uncomfortable. My sister picked me up to live with him, and the two sisters kept me company every day. Two nephews will come back for dinner with their wives and children on weekends. The room was filled with children's laughter and fireworks. I am greedy, and this excitement makes me want to give my children pocket money as soon as I see them. I have social security and a pension, and I usually don't spend much money. Money is like waste paper to me. People are old and afraid of loneliness. A few years later, my sister passed away. The son's family of three came back to attend the funeral, and the granddaughter has grown into a big girl, dressed in fashion and full of foreign languages. I am out of place in this small village, so I can't get close to her. You can only say hello to her politely. Let her eat this, let her eat that. I remember my son likes to eat marinated eggs, so I cooked and got him a dozen. My granddaughter saw it and reached for it. Daughter-in-law's eyes are sharp, she patted her hand with her hand and stared at me again. My heart gave a sudden quiver. I am not stupid. My daughter-in-law hates me and my cooking.
Chatting with my son at night, I was puzzled to ask him that your biological father died and your wife and children didn't come back. How come your aunt died and all three of you came back to show your filial piety? The son said awkwardly that it was a special situation at that time. Your daughter-in-law had a miscarriage, so it was not easy to run around. And my aunt and two cousins have been very kind to you for so many years, and I am very grateful to them. At this time, my heart felt better, and he still had this heart. My son has been back for a long time, but he lives in a hotel in the county. It's still not easy to meet him.
A few days later, there were rumors in the village that the old village was going to be demolished, and it happened that the place where we lived was also within the scope of demolition. According to our living area and the number of ornamental trees behind our house, the compensation is considerable. At that time, I was hit hard by the good news, and I stood on tiptoe to the village Committee to inquire about the truth of the news. The director told me that it was not true. This document was issued by the authorities. This story has been going around for months. Your son and I were good friends in high school. I told him a long time ago. It's like being hit hard with a stick and subconsciously asking. My son already knows about this? The director must have nodded. I went home in a daze. It's like you're stepping on cotton, but you're not. I finally understand that my son didn't come back this time for menstruation's funeral. Their family of three came back to ask for compensation for demolition. ...
A week later, the village really sent the demolition documents, and my son's family of three came to discuss the compensation for demolition with me. I said I could get three suites if I divided the area equally, and the room I wanted was free. The son said, "Mom, you live alone. Why do you need so many houses? " . I glanced at my son and said that I was too old to keep money. I live in one set and rent two sets, and the water keeps flowing. My son shrank his neck, crustily skin of head and said awkwardly that he had recently taken a fancy to a project and wanted to invest. I need a lot of money. Can I ask for money if I don't have a house? Let him use the money first. Although I was psychologically prepared, I was still hurt by his righteous attitude. I looked at him sadly. Your father and I have suffered a lot and have never treated you badly. I thought you could count on you if you were promising. But your father never relied on you until his death, and your wife and children didn't show up at the funeral. Ten years after your father died, your two cousins were in charge of me, and you never wanted me to settle down. Now your family is licking their faces and withholding my money. Why are you shameless? My son didn't expect me to tear his face so neatly. He jumped up after being stabbed, and the daughter-in-law pulled up her granddaughter with a sullen face and turned directly to go out. I don't care that much. I feel much better when I speak my mind.
Before, my heart was alive, but every time I was treated coldly by my son, my heart gradually cooled down. Before, I thought my son's indifference became so indifferent with the bad habits of foreigners. Now I find my son selfish, telling his parents about human rights and freedom, and saying that he doesn't believe in supporting his parents in China. I also hope to follow the domestic tradition and hope that my parents will open their hearts to him. After all, it's not that he went abroad and was brainwashed, but that his roots have long been damaged. I regret it to death. At the beginning, I only cared about his study and didn't care about his character, which led to such a bleak situation.
I made a will under the witness of the village Committee. Notarize three suites, two for two nephews, and the other for Project Hope. My son won't let me play emotional cards again, and I won't give in. The son slammed the door angrily without even looking back. It's like leaving a useless rag instead of his own mother. My two nephews assured me that they would give me a pension even if I left them no property. What's more, with this will now. They have more responsibility and obligation to take care of me. I didn't live in my nephew's house, but went to a nursing home. My sister is gone, and I'm not their real mother. Although we have family ties, I don't want to consume them excessively. I am satisfied that they can come to see me and take care of me when I am seriously ill. I don't know how long I can live, but with the help of a house, a pension and two nephews, I shouldn't be too bad in a nursing home. At least it's better than giving all the property to the baiwenhang son. I also want to remind everyone through my own experience: as parents, we educate our children to be the first, otherwise even if their children are excellent. He also thinks it is natural to suck you dry and squeeze you clean. In the end, it was not family happiness, but chicken flying and dog jumping. Today's story ends here. If you are touched, please share!