There are a hundred reasons for wanting to do something, and there will be a hundred reasons for not wanting to do something. The same is true of having children. Those who want to have children say that their parents want to have grandchildren when they are old. If they don't have health, they won't be in the best condition, or if they want to be a good student, they have to have children early, because young people have the best physical quality.

But if you don't want to have children, you will feel: the job is still unstable, the income can't support the children's expenses, both husband and wife are born at work and no one takes care of them, the house is too small to have children, and there is not enough room for children to move around. But in the end, it's just a question of thinking and not thinking, and the rest are excuses.

But from the actual situation, if the material conditions are available, it is better to have children early. On the one hand, it is true that children are born smaller and healthier, on the other hand, raising children requires not only wisdom but also physical strength. Both men and women, after the age of 35, their physical condition will really decline, and sometimes raising children will be beyond their power. As for the reason why you don't want to have children, you can also consider it with emotion. Unless you really want Dink and reincarnate when you are old, then no amount of regret can offset the burden of body and mind.