What is the responsibility of parents in family education? The acquired enlightenment can greatly improve children's intelligence, and children will have different problems at different stages. At the same time, many parents believe that the more outstanding the child's ability, the better. Cultivating children will make them grow up better in the future. Let's share with you what responsibilities parents have in family education.
What is the responsibility of parents in family education? 1 Chinese traditional culture attaches great importance to etiquette. No matter in society or in family, people should abide by certain etiquette rules, such as observing the order of father and son, monarch and minister, respecting seniority, qualifications and so on. The so-called state-owned national law has family rules.
In China's traditional education system, families mainly undertake moral education tasks, while schools mainly undertake intellectual education tasks, with a clear division of labor. Nowadays, the importance of children's intellectual education is highly valued, so that families and schools put their own education emphasis on intellectual education. Who will pay attention to children's moral education?
On the other hand, various slogans advocating the development of children's potential are prevalent in society. Parents are busy buying toys, books and training classes for their children, fearing that their children will lose at the starting line. After our "development", children's intelligence has developed well, and they have accepted a lot of information at an early age, which is much more mature than when we were young; But at the same time, we will also find that compared with our childhood, children seem to be "stunted" in other aspects. For example, grandparents are watching TV, and children switch to children's channels without consulting the remote control; There is no limit when playing with parents, and it will not be too light when playing with parents-pinch your nose and pull your hair.
If these behaviors of children are trivial things in life, then with the growth of children, some trivial things will develop seriously. Children lack the concepts of "respecting the elderly" and "filial piety". It is said that some big cities have developed a new business: if the elderly with real estate can't get the care and support of their children, they will take their houses to live in nursing homes. Nursing homes are responsible for renting houses, and the rent is used as a source of expenses for the elderly in nursing homes. This new business reflects from the side that many children in society do not have the traditional virtue of "filial piety" of the Chinese nation.
Today's children lack moral education, which is caused by our adults' neglect. Children become a "center" of the family from birth, and everyone serves them. This habit has been maintained until the children go to kindergarten, primary school, middle school ... delicious, fun and easy to use, all according to their abilities, parents, grandparents are automatically relegated to a secondary position. Over time, the child will think that everything should be based on his comfort and convenience. As for the rest of the family, he won't consider it, and it seems that he doesn't have to consider it.
Therefore, in family education, parents are not only the guardians of children, but also the earliest teachers in charge of children's education and learning, and their role as examples can not be ignored.
What is the responsibility of parents in family education? As the saying goes, "Look at the old at three, and look at the old at seven." For a child's growth, 0-3 years old is a very critical stage. This period of time is not only the most rapid and plastic period of children's brain development, but also an important basis for cultivating their sound personality. Therefore, some parents attach great importance to early education. A few days after the child was born, he began to prepare for "early education" intensively.
Because parents spare no effort to pay attention to it, early education has a very large market. "The world is bustling, all for profit." Many institutions in this field have mushroomed. Due to their overwhelming publicity, many parents have gradually entered a misunderstanding: in their eyes, early education is an early education class. Is it true?/You don't say.
Obviously not! As we all know, parents are children's first teachers, and their education is more important than any form of education. For children, especially 0-3-year-old infants, the biggest influence on them is not early education classes, but parents. It is not advisable to send children to early education classes and think that their early education is over. Parents are children's first teachers, and family is their most important class. Harmonious parent-child relationship, scientific parenting style and warm and happy family environment are all important conditions for children's healthy growth.
Although the children at this time are young, they also have many needs, such as physical needs and emotional needs. If the baby's physical and emotional needs can be correctly understood by parents, and they can respond positively, correctly and enthusiastically in time, such as feeding when hungry, teasing when bored, and coaxing when sleepy, it is beneficial for children and parents to establish a safe attachment relationship. Security attachment and security attachment make children emotionally stable, dare to explore the outside world, and have a full sense of security inside. These qualities are the foundation of a child's sound personality. Early childhood is a critical period for the cultivation of children's sound personality. At this stage, family and parents have the greatest influence on children's physical and mental health. I hope parents are busy and must pay attention to their children's growth in infancy.
Therefore, the most important thing in early education is not to educate children, but to educate parents. If parents master scientific parenting methods, the education of their children will become much simpler. If the child has aggressive behavior, it is wrong for parents to scold and ignore it. We can use "mild punishment" to stop misconduct in time, stop the game, leave the game environment and let the children think. This can not only achieve the purpose of punishment, but also prevent children from encountering similar things and appearing the same behavior in future games.