Hello expert, my baby is one and a half years old. Recently, she doesn't want to wear shoes. At first, she always wore my shoes, and now she doesn't wear hers at all. I told her that the ground was too cold and barefoot would hurt her stomach. My mother is wearing shoes, too. Let her touch her little feet when it's cold. At first she listened, but later it didn't work. I hit her for it, and it doesn't work now. My house is not a wooden floor. How cold it is for the baby to run barefoot on the ground. But she wouldn't listen, and she was really worried. Many children don't like wearing shoes, because they don't wear shoes, and their little feet touch the ground directly, which gives them a completely different touch from wearing shoes, and they will enjoy this feeling. Barefoot is actually good for children's health if they are not afraid of catching cold. The following measures are suggested to solve this problem: 1. the floor At present, there is a kind of plastic floor on the market, which is relatively cheap and soft to step on, and can isolate the cold ground. It is recommended to arrange such an area for children to step barefoot. However, you must choose that kind of environmentally friendly material. 2. wear socks. Go with the children to pick out two pairs of thick socks, the non-slip ones, which are very comfortable to wear and many children like them. 3. Put it down first, and then give it proper guidance. When the child's behavior can't be changed, it's best to let go first. Because the more you obsess over this problem, try to convince him, or even take punitive measures to change him, it is equivalent to giving him more negative attention, which will not have any effect on changing his behavior, but will strengthen his behavior. I suggest you stop telling her about wearing shoes, but try to guide her to listen to you from the side. There are many methods, which can be flexibly mastered according to children's preferences. For example, children of this age are all pan-spiritual, so in their minds, everything is alive. Then, you might as well communicate with her like her little shoes and induce her to wear shoes: "Beautiful little shoes, who is your little master?" Do you want to be with her little feet? Oh, you can't find your little master? Baby, do you know whose little shoes these are? It wants to be with its little master! "Inviting children to look for the little owner of shoes together, she will definitely find this game very interesting and may put on shoes smoothly. If you handle it this way, there will be no confrontation between you, and she will become very cooperative and smart. Lin Yi (Early Education Expert)