Every one of us should hold the concept of lifelong learning, both parents and young men and women should learn.
Reading this Montessori family education book and the previous theoretical study have brought me many new inspirations:
1, order
The biggest feeling is that I am sensitive to the order of children. Once again, I deeply realized that because I am an unorganized person, I often pick things up and put them anywhere at will, and it is difficult to get used to putting them back. I've always wanted to change it, but I haven't completely succeeded.
With such a contrast, the motivation for change will be more sufficient. If we don't know these views, we certainly won't think of children's sense of order, which is inspired by learning.
For example, the article tells an example. One day, a mother was sick and lying on the sofa in the living room. In order to make her comfortable, the maid brought her two cushions behind her. Just then, my mother, a 2 1 month-old daughter, came over and wanted to hear her story. But after listening for a while, the little girl burst into tears. No matter how much everyone comforted her, the little girl cried. I just kept saying "Mom, sofa" in tears. The little girl stopped crying when the mat was placed in the original story-telling position.
This is destroying the original sense of order in the little girl's heart.
2. Induction period
The so-called sensitive period refers to an instinctive reaction feeling that appears in the process of children's growth and development. During this period, children learn everything very easily. Yes, everything is full of energy and passion.
However, the development of human intelligence is based on the sensitive period of children. If we are good at catching the sensitive period of children's gold, we will get twice the result with half the effort for their growth!
The following are sensitive periods:
The sensitive period of sequence is 0~4 years old.
Sensory sensitive period is 0~6 years old.
The sensitive period of action is 0~6 years old.
Detail sensitive period 1.5~4 years old.
The sensitive period of social norms is 2.5~6 years old.
The sensitive period of writing is 3.5~4.5 years old.
The sensitive period of reading is 4.5~5.5 years old.
0~3 years old is a critical period for the formation of children's character.
Every child is a unique seed. The purpose of reading and learning is not to copy all the theories, but to do better on the basis of knowing and understanding.
Extended reading:
Parents' Language, Childhood Secrets and Family Education