If parents always command their children according to their own ideas and let them follow their own ideas, I am afraid it will disrupt the pace of their own growth.
Children, no matter how old, have their own ideas. If parents forcibly intervene, the original growth rhythm of children will become chaotic, so that children can not find the direction of self-development, which parents can not make up for in the future.
Especially children's attention, once it is difficult to concentrate, it is even more difficult to improve. In the process of educating children, parents should not do things that they regret, because sometimes it is too late to regret. Children's concentration can be steadily improved. Parents should stop it? Tough? Behavior, give children room to grow freely.
Overbearing? The influence of parents on their children
In daily life, some parents are overbearing and arrange their children's affairs at their own pace. When children concentrate on doing their own things, parents will let them follow their parents' rhythm in order to catch up with time or do other things by themselves.
Like what? Stop playing and come and eat. Come on, there's no time, okay? This is what parents usually say, but parents actually disrupt their children's thinking and rhythm invisibly. In the eyes of parents, everything they do is right, but they don't know that this practice seriously interferes with their children's attention, making it difficult for them to indulge in their own small world, or even possible? Ruined? A child's concentration affects his life.
I want my child to be a dedicated child from an early age. The only thing parents can do is to give him his own small world when he wants to do something, without disturbing or interfering. In this way, the child's concentration gradually develops, which is very beneficial for him to enter the classroom in the future.
If you find that your child is very active in class and the teacher always calls to communicate with you, then you should realize that your child may not be focused enough, so he will make small moves in class and it is difficult to concentrate.
First, lack of concentration. What harm will it do if you can't concentrate?
1. Graded landslide
If children are not focused enough from an early age, it is difficult to concentrate and their grades will get worse and worse.
2. It is difficult to adapt to group activities.
Children with poor concentration and difficulty in concentration often do not perform well in group activities, which will interfere with and destroy group activities and be excluded.
Second, what should parents do to keep their children's concentration from being damaged?
1. Trust children unconditionally
When your child is trying, as long as there is no danger, let the child do it, don't get involved in what the child is doing, and don't give advice for the child.
2. Don't violate the law of children's growth.
The child's concentration is gradually increasing. As parents, don't be impatient. You must follow the growth law of children and guide them correctly.
Third, as a parent, how to improve children's attention?
1. If possible, parents should attend some educational lectures.
It's not just children who need to learn. If parents want to raise their children scientifically, they must create conditions to study. In the early education course, parents learn some scientific parenting knowledge, learn some skills to improve attention, and master some games that can make children concentrate.
For example, finding a small game with a corresponding pattern can guide children to concentrate on one thing. As parents, you can draw some geometric patterns according to your child's age, draw the items that your child likes in the patterns, and then make some cards to let your child look for the same items in the geometric patterns. This game can gradually increase the difficulty, which is very effective for improving children's concentration and making them concentrate.
Parents should set a good benchmark.
If children want to focus on one thing, parents should focus on their own things very much. Children have strong imitation ability. What parents look like, children will look like. Don't think that children's concentration depends only on themselves, but must play the role of example and benchmark.
3. Pay attention to cultivating children's hobbies.
Parents should support children if they want to improve their concentration and do what they like. When children delve into a certain field, they will think, do and discuss with their friends wholeheartedly. More times, you will form good habits. When the habit is formed, the child will not be distracted.
If you want to cultivate children's concentration, parents should remember not to go further and further. If children are not interested, they will not concentrate, let alone concentrate. Guidance should also find the right method, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve the set goals.