Once, my best friend told me something that happened to her. Although she was badly beaten by her in-laws, she was proud in front of her in-laws.
My best friend is a kindergarten teacher who has a steelyard in his heart to educate children. But the mother-in-law and father-in-law of girlfriends are very strong and have a strong desire for control. Children should do everything according to their own wishes. For example, the child concentrates on piling wood there, and the mother-in-law comes to seduce the child with cut fruit; The child is concentrating on beading, and the father-in-law turns on the TV and plays cartoons. ......
Originally, the boy was active. With the help of his in-laws, the child's concentration was almost destroyed. My best friend once told my parents-in-law about the importance of concentration to children, and I hope my parents-in-law will stop destroying children's concentration. But my in-laws' strong personality made my best friend's persuasion futile, and she was full of anger.
I don't eat seriously, I don't drink milk seriously, I don't have the patience to pile wood, I don't have the patience to listen to stories ... My girlfriend is anxious when she looks at the children getting worse. "If this continues, the child will be ruined!"
For the sake of the children's future, regardless of the threat of in-laws, my best friend resolutely resigned and came back to be a full-time nanny, educating the children in his own way: taking the children out for exercise every morning, cooking for them at noon, and letting them play with stickers after a nap, day after day.
The best friend just instructs the children to play for a while at first, and then lets them play by themselves. The children are having a good time, and their best friend is lying in the rocking chair "playing with his mobile phone", which is simply "playing with things"! My in-laws said angrily, "Why are you so lazy? Just resign. My son can earn money to support his family alone. However, Sun Sun is over 2 years old. You don't give him an early education class, but you take him to play every day. You can't keep up with school! "
My best friend knew it was useless to explain to her mother-in-law, but she simply said, "I didn't use your son's money, and I won't let him be worse than others!" " . Since then, the attitude of in-laws towards girlfriends has become even worse. After all, no mother-in-law can stand a lazy daughter-in-law.
In a blink of an eye, the child will be 3 years old and will go to kindergarten. Mother-in-law thinks that children who have neither enrolled in early education classes nor learned anything at home will definitely be much worse than other children. She will definitely be criticized by the teacher and ridiculed by the parents of other children.
Unexpectedly, the ending was unexpected to her mother-in-law. Instead of criticizing the children, the teacher gave them small red flowers and praised them every day. And also praised the children's education methods! Other parents who came to pick up their children also cast envious eyes.
It turns out that after school, children are not worse than other children, but far ahead of other children in learning interest, hands-on ability, self-care ability and logical thinking ability. Especially children's concentration is super strong. Other children either like to be distracted or concentrate on listening for two or three minutes. Only her grandchildren can concentrate on one thing for a long time.
The teacher also told her mother-in-law that at this rate, the child must be a serious schoolmaster. My mother-in-law was both happy and ashamed when she heard this, and she was glad that her grandchildren were so excellent. I am ashamed that I don't understand my daughter-in-law and even call names to each other.
When my mother-in-law came home, she stopped talking to her best friend. Seeing the awkward atmosphere, my best friend said to her mother-in-law, "You and Dad are both very strong. If I don't resign so decisively, you won't listen to me and your children won't be praised by the teacher. " Mother-in-law sat down and began to humbly ask her girlfriends. Why does she always take her children to play with stickers to make them so good? My best friend shared her views.
1, 2~8 years old mainly cultivates children's interest.
Interest is the best motivation for children to learn. For two or three-year-old children, pasting pictures is their interest. Choosing the right sticker can stimulate children's interest in learning, which is beneficial and harmless.
As for why I am "lazy" to take my children to play together, it is because the higher the degree of freedom, the higher the interest. On the contrary, blindly letting children follow our ideas will hinder their development and destroy their interest and talent in learning.
2. Sticking pictures can improve children's concentration.
Stickers are colorful and interesting, covering a wide range of contents. In the process of playing with stickers, children's attention may shift from plant stickers to animal stickers, or to stickers of other items, but they will always be immersed in how to use their brains to make the stickers in their hands meet the requirements of books, so as to achieve long-term concentration. No matter how the child jumps and diverges, it will be collected by one of the themes, and with his own exploration, he will gradually guide his ability to concentrate.
As for how to choose a sticker suitable for children, my best friend showed her mother-in-law the set of stickers for children's concentration training for her daughter, and said with a smile, it must be both practical and affordable!
My best friend said, first of all, children aged 2-8 really need stickers, so we can start with this set of books. This set of books has 18 stickers, including 3 100 stickers. A set of books is enough for children to play for a long time and is affordable.
Secondly, this set of sticker books includes life, language, reasoning, mathematical ability, IQ, judgment, potential, behavior, observation, reaction, creativity, imagination, emotional intelligence, logical ability, understanding and many other aspects. It is feasible to cultivate children's thinking ability, analytical ability, practical ability and creative ability while cultivating their concentration.
Thirdly, this set of books is really targeted. A *** 18 volume, each focusing on cultivating a kind of ability. For example: memory, spatial imagination, reasoning judgment, creativity and so on. More than 300 different scenes and more than 365,438+000 beautiful stickers, including maze, room layout, item classification, digital games, etc. Let children deepen their daily knowledge reserves during play.
Finally, design stickers according to children's cognitive characteristics and understanding ability. When children see the scene patterns on the stickers, they will quickly process and classify them in their brains, which invisibly exercises their logical thinking ability and reasoning ability.
Concentration can really affect a child's life. I hope there are children aged 2 to 8 at home. If you want to cultivate and improve children's concentration, if you don't know how to educate their parents, you can try this set of sticker books. I'm looking for a girlfriend to put the link below, and it's guaranteed to be genuine and the price is beautiful ~