What should I send to visit my newborn?
1) If you want to keep it simple, just send gifts directly, depending on the economic level of each place and the close relationship with your parents. Remember to wrap it in a red envelope.
2) Toys: Please communicate with mom and dad in advance to see what the child is missing. Don't buy copies.
3) Diapers: If you really don't know what to give, and your parents don't say what is missing, then give two packs of diapers, preferably M or L size, or ask others about their favorite brands. For example, some mothers use imported ones, and some mothers use domestic ones. Most little mothers have bought them, and medium and large sizes are definitely necessary, but most of them have not started buying them yet. It is more appropriate to send them. Or ask mom first. Generally, diapers are especially needed unless children use traditional diapers.
4) Gold ornaments and silver ornaments: gold locks and silver locks, small bracelets, pendants, bracelets, etc. This is more expensive, depending on the relationship.
5) Things that help mother recover: Ejiao, blood-enriching holy products, postpartum local products, etc. , are very good. But you'd better check with my mother in advance. After all, it's food, and it depends on whether people can cook it at home. This is generally not refused.
6) Children's wear: It is not recommended to send clothes, because ordinary shopping malls are particularly expensive, and it is very cheap to buy one for three or four hundred. This money can buy a big toy, and parents must have prepared their children's clothes, and you are not sure about the size or anything. Giving gifts is not good-looking, and buying too much is too expensive. What about buying toys with this money? Big and practical? Yes
6) Don't send flowers, because it will cause pollen allergy in children, remember!
7) Don't buy milk powder. If children drink milk powder, they will drink it as soon as they are born, and many children can't change it if they drink foreign milk powder for at least 6 months. Don't give it to your friend's baby unless you can buy it. Buy some. But I still suggest not to send it. Milk powder is imported. What if I buy a fake one?
What should I bring to visit my newborn?
1, red envelope
Don't call me greedy. In fact, after the baby is born, many friends will give the baby a red envelope (commonly known as rolling interest in the south) as a gift. It is one thing to have more money and less money in a red envelope, mainly to win a good lottery, which means peace and good luck, long life and all the best. But my mother also said that the money in the red envelope is actually sent back and forth, and my mother will take it back when my uncle and aunt give birth to a baby. ? The child, how to tell the truth! ? Mom said crossly.
2. Bedroom clothes
If you don't know what gift is best for me, you'd better give me a suit that suits me, or the baby's bedding. Most of my clothes when I was born were prepared by my parents, so it's better to give me a bigger size. But be careful. For example, I was born in summer, so it's better to give me bigger winter clothes or summer clothes after 1 year old. Because, you can't imagine how fast I grew up. Another best way is to put the shopping receipt in the clothes packaging, which is really bad. Mom doesn't mind changing into a larger size.
Remember, you must send me pure cotton clothes. Pure cotton clothes are comfortable and breathable, and will not affect my delicate little skin. If you are not sure about the number of clothes, I also welcome a set of bedding, such as cool blankets, small blankets, thin quilts and so on in summer. These are all very practical and good things. Uncle and aunt must choose quality products.
3, toiletries
I didn't expect that, baby. I actually like toiletries very much. Why? Because I have to take care of my parents to eat and drink Lazar these months, especially because I have a lot of defecation, which is difficult to clean up. A good set of toiletries can solve many problems for my parents. Moreover, as a newborn, I especially like taking a bath. Every time you take a bath, you should take good care of your body, including body care milk and talcum powder. I am always welcome. ? What? Uncle and aunt, I don't have any baby wipes paper again. You know what to send.
4. Diapers
Is this the place to tell the truth? Are you sure? Then I'll tell the truth. Okay, I'll be honest. To tell the truth, diapers are a gift I don't like very much. Why? First, I will use a certain brand of diapers more regularly and will not change them at will. Secondly, my uncles and aunts who send diapers always send two big bags of the same model, and they all like to send small diapers. You know, I grew up very fast, and within two months, small people were completely unsuitable for me.
Every time my mother surprises me with these diapers, whether I like them or not, she brings them to me. Sometimes, it's obviously very small, and my mother also said that in order to save money, it would be very wronged to wear it. Alas, poor little ass! Uncle and aunt, if you want to change my diaper, remember to ask my mother what brand I wear first. People also recognize brands. In addition, it is recommended to buy a larger size. If you really won't buy it, remember to leave a shopping receipt for your mother to change.
5. Baby toys
It seems that uncles and aunts seldom send toys when they visit newborns. After all, toys need to be applied to babies of a certain age. In fact, there are many toys beneficial to my early education, such as bed bells, soothing toys, baby fitness equipment, hand bells and so on. I like them very much. Of course, toys such as toy guns and Barbie dolls can be given to me on my birthday, because I don't know what they do yet.
If you give me toys, my uncle and aunt must not be greedy for cheap toys with substandard quality, but must choose materials that are harmless to the baby, so as to ensure my health.
6, trolleys, walkers, safety seats
Trolley is very expensive. If I receive such a gift, I will be very happy. Of course, my parents usually prepare trolleys for me in advance, so uncles and aunts had better ask my parents in advance to avoid repeated purchases. I wish I had a car instead of walking. Don't waste too much.
I don't like baby walker very much. First, it will be nearly a year before I can use them. Secondly, a recent study said that the walker has little positive effect on my toddler, but there will be some unsafe factors.
Give me a car seat? ! You must be mom and dad's best friend, right? Or you just love me and give me such an expensive gift. In China, the price of car safety seats is slightly higher, and most parents do not have this safety awareness. In fact, if the baby travels by car, it is safest to have a car seat. I don't need to send this from my uncle and aunt. Ask my parents to buy one for me.
7. Milk powder and complementary food
Baby, I don't like my uncle and aunt giving me milk powder. Why? Because I will drink a relatively fixed brand of milk powder, frequent replacement of different brands of milk powder will lead to my easy to get angry and indigestion. Therefore, if my uncle and aunt don't know what brand of milk powder I drink, don't give me milk powder easily. Most complementary foods have a certain shelf life. I don't need complementary foods for the first 4 months, so try not to bring me food.
8, feeding supplies
My aunt and uncle, who are already my parents, came to see me with special experiences. They often give people gifts full of surprises, which also makes my mother feel very thoughtful. What makes us love each other so much? Let me tell you something, baby.
For example, gutta percha stick, I didn't expect it. I like to bite my teeth when I have teeth. With this baby, my mother will be much more relaxed. There are also complementary food training tableware, which is also good. It was used shortly after birth. And warm milk or disinfection tools. These things look unremarkable, but they are very useful. My mother praised them as simple and convenient gifts.
9, maternal postpartum care products
In fact, many people only remember to buy me gifts, but ignore my great mother. Mom also needs everyone's care and care, especially after giving birth, so I will be especially happy to give her a gift. Postpartum body shaping products, nursing bras and postpartum skin care products are all good choices. I love mom!
10, flowers, seasonal fruits
Uncle and aunt, don't bring flowers when you come to see me, because I was just born and my resistance is poor. The pollen of flowers can easily make me allergic and induce asthma, so remember not to bring flowers.
Seasonal fruit is also good, but postpartum mother's appetite is average, and the amount should not be too much. It is best to bring some warm fruits, which is more conducive to the recovery of the postpartum body. To tell you quietly, in fact, many fruits were eaten secretly by my father. After I was born, my weight increased with my weight, and so did my father's weight. Gee, that's strange.
Matters needing attention during the visit
* Wash your hands! ! ! ! Wash your hands first whether you hold the baby or not! ! ! ! ! This is a very important point.
* Time: It is best to go during the day, and the day of the week is decided. If you finish watching it at night, please leave before 20 o'clock, and the baby will start sleeping.
* Don't wear perfume, including on your body and clothes. For children, this is a suffocating smell.
* Whether you should hug your child depends on your relationship with your parents and your child's mood at that time.