-"Yan Jiaxun"
Yan Jiaxun is the pioneering work of family instruction in later generations and a valuable legacy in the treasure house of ancient family education theory in China.
In today's words, "parents are children's first teachers" and they are lifelong teachers. Good family discipline and good family style have a subtle influence on the formation of the next generation's outlook on life, which is irreplaceable by other forms of education.
In my mind, grandpa is a hard-working life, and my father often says that "people have to work."
Here, I don't want to praise good family training and good family style with high-profile theoretical level, but tell the story of grandpa and dad!
My grandfather died when I was eight years old, so my understanding of my grandfather came more from the discussion between my father and my neighbors. In my impression, grandpa is very strict with me and my uncle's two brothers. I vaguely remember being beaten because the three of us smoked with sticks.
Grandpa is the captain of the production team, but his team members are not satisfied, because grandpa is too serious, there can be no weeds in the field, and there can be no digging places; He is not afraid of heat or fatigue. He wears a star and works in the morning and in the afternoon. He always sets an example. What should members do? Follow "suffering"!
Now grandpa's generation has become a national treasure-less and less. Every time I go back to my hometown to visit them, I hear more memories of some beautiful things at that time.
When my father graduated from high school, he was catching up with the special era of educated youth going to the countryside. He took an active part in the revolutionary team of "Radically Curing Haihe River" for eight years. Long-term fatigue has caused my father's calf to skyrocket (it should be varicose veins), and one thigh has been unable to exert itself.
I often imagine that scene: thousands of revolutionary youths, shouting their horns, pushing or pulling carts, carrying sand, mud and stones, fighting against the sky, how spectacular! Perhaps it was influenced by my grandfather, or maybe eight years of extreme labor laid my father's hard-working life consciousness. Whenever and wherever, "everyone has to work" has become his motto.
I have read it, and I still remember my father's diary of his work in that year, which records all the main points of this group's work, has enthusiastic revolutionary slogans, and is even more optimistic about a bright future and man can conquer nature. It can be seen that the "Chinese dream" has long existed and is rooted in the hearts of several generations.
After the "Radical Treatment of Haihe River" campaign, my father failed to catch the train to resume the college entrance examination, and turned and stepped into the work team of all walks of life. He worked as a construction worker, a greening worker, sold vermicelli, fried deep-fried dough sticks, spread egg rolls and planted garlic moss ... Undoubtedly, all these jobs were hard, but he never said that he was tired, only called himself bitter, because in his heart there was a belief that people had to work.
According to my father, when selling vermicelli, I use my bicycle to pull 100 kilograms of vermicelli to the western mountainous area of Xingtai every morning, or to the border of Handan or Shanxi, and I have to travel over mountains and mountains for a long time, and it takes several days to go back and forth. With what? It depends on the optimistic attitude, the nature of the workers and the sense of responsibility for the family. All these will affect my life.
When I was older, my father started a small business of frying fried dough sticks. He needs to make dough, wake up, heat oil and fry at three o'clock in the morning. At dawn, he put the fried dough sticks in a basket and took them to the market or the countryside by bike to sell. I will get up at 4: 00 or 5: 00 every morning to light the stove, set up fried dough sticks, help load the car and make contributions to my family. Later, my father and I worked together in the fields until I went to Jiangsu to study.
My father is seventy years old this year, and his long-term work has made him look vicissitudes, thin and dark. My brothers and sisters have their own small families, and they want to do their best to support the elderly and let their father hand over the fields they are responsible for to their neighbors for farming, but he refuses to live or die. "People have to work, what's the point of being idle!" This sentence is familiar to me.
Everyone wants to live a happy life. In the process of social development and change, the working people in Qian Qian, like their fathers, live at the grassroots level and fight in the front line of society. They need to work hard to provide more people with the basic elements of life. Father's life is full, and the working people like his father are great!
Everyone has to work will be a hymn that will accompany me all my life!